Hi, I'm B, Survivor & Mentor. nicetuhmeetchuh! 😊

Purpose Driven Diversified Kid

B is, a survivor of chronic incest and child abuse as captive from age 6 to 18 in the hands of her parents and further abuse and assault experiences as she got older.

She was expected to throw her life away, go crazy, or be found dead somewhere. 

Instead she found light to dream outside her circumstances and become the opposite of her 'mumu' (monsters in Filipino), best she could.

Now, she has almost 20 yrs. of experience in top management leadership in Fortune Global 500 technology companies. 

She turned her back on corporate at the peak of her male dominated and unbelievably demanding The Devil-Wears-Prada leadership & management career to chase her biggest dream: to become a hands on single parent and raise her minions at home. She got rid of her 3 live in nannies and built a Social Enterprise as her provider duties were separate from her nurturing mommy desires.

B has since been on one amazing adventure that she can't believe is the life she gets to live everyday, it's vacay feels all the time for this Filipina role model who brings everything back up to the one who holds the stars.

She has 6 digit photos worth of adventures everywhere as seen on her gram (update: she just finished archiving 11k photos but will share more soon) ❤️

B is the Founder, CEO, and Creative Artist & Visionary of a diversified international social enterprise built to elevate the lives of the lost, the least, the last, and the lacking. The group of companies have Culture and Fashion Retail, Food & Beverage, Adventure Travel & Tours, Paragliding Pilot School, Professional Coaching & Devt, Custom Made Shoes, Beach Bed & Breakfast, Zero Waste & Sustainable Organic Skin & Body Care, Creative Studios, and Professional Cleaning Services,

From team to suppliers, they prioritize underprivileged and disadvantaged Filipinos, as well have programs that go beyond only feeding people fish but to "teach a man to fish."

She co-founded an international Start Up EdTech company with a multi generational team of wonders. They're in a season of growth amid the pandemic and are totally wow-ed by the privilege to do so in these crazy times. 

She's also currently putting up a proper academic institution recognized by Department of Education Philippines for Humanistic Progressive Global Education. The big dream there is the privileged schoolers and the underserved scholars can be integrated in one community where there is no difference, but the other helps the other break free from generational poverty & defeatedness (she won't run out of ways to love)

B is also the Founding Chairman & President of a creative nonstock nonprofit organization of mountaineers and adventurers that help remote and least prioritized communities in the Philippines. They fund raise independently and build with their own bare hands for others. They renovate schools, support health needs, provide joy and love, feeding programs, and even disaster recovery, relief, and response work. 

In 2021, they have began building a longterm facility and program for high impact change that's meant to go on for generations! The organization seeks to create an outreach culture epidemic by inspiring each person to act on love in behalf of strangers. They do all of this heart work with a conscious none-focus on politics & popularity.

B has an independent professional consulting practice est 2012 for  Leadership, Business Process, & Management Systems helping Businesses/Organizations and Individuals start up, elevate, thrive, and push the continual improvement bar which is what her social media activity all these years are for. While most people think she might be an influencer, she doesn't consider herself as one. Soc med has just been one way to nurture her career.

This fine lady is also a Certified Transformational Mentor, helping individuals live their best & healthiest life after abuse & trauma, Her practice focuses on is trauma informed & healing-centric holistic fitness.

Mental health, self compassion, nutrition, physical fitness, inner wellness, lifestyle, self care, relationships, purpose, and productivity.

She's mentored and transformed with many brave lives through the years of her quiet private practice that began in 2012.

She mentors underserved abuse victims for free and have assisted in successfully getting them out of abusive environments.

She's super humbled to be able to Work From Adventure and travel all over to meet new people and experience life to the fullest while being able to focus on passion, purpose, and profit. She knows how special that is and seizes this privilege everyday. 

She doesn't believe her productivity is her life and identity. She unlearned the rat race mindset that urges us to live to work and shifted to understand that she works in order to live, "quite a life changing opposite that I'm grateful I knew at a young age".

But here you go, what stuns most people about her more than everything she does and has is who she genuinely is on top of her achievements.

She's simple like a kid, dubbed "Patrick Star" even, but impressively we have not once heard her flaunt herself as the boss or owner of anything nor will you ever find her talking about all her companies unless asked! (check her insta, with very little indication).

B really is the real deal, what she does truly isn't her entire life, she just does all of it well, and she's genuinely focused on who can be helped not proving who she is. What a refreshing inspiration!

Let's get to know her more personally now, the many other things B does is pretty much everything! (are we even surprised) She loves mountaineering, rock climbing, paragliding, skin diving, beach clean ups, running, yoga, pilates, hiit training, basketball, dragon boat & olympic rowing... art installations, film & digital photography, cinematography, inside flow dance, jewelry design & crafting, hosting, developing organic skin care formulations, voice over, theater acting, lyre, graphic design, culinary discoveries, barista fun, and freespirited dancing and singing.

She was a former cheerleader, basketball, and olympic rowing varsity who was also into inter-collegiate debate competitions. She took up BS Psychology as pre-law or pre-med degree in university. She loves cheese. And jellyfish. oooh and she's also in the process of writing a book, sky diving this year, and likes spending time on the dance floor, museums, remote places, libraries, flea markets, public transport on vacations, boats, tents, street gutters, up on trees, in blue green water, and at indoor & outdoor studios creating. 

B was nominated for an Outstanding Filipina award in 2020 which made her pee her pants. She likewise has received distinctions & recognitions for the many things she gets herself into over the years but to that she remarks:

"but I don't value any of these shiny success marker thingies any more than I do a pack of gum. I could have some of it or I could have none and I'd be off skip-hopping with my usual smile, stopping to breathe air, stare, or sing/dance freely and out loud, hugging a stranger and telling them they are loved."

She is on her way to a PhD in Europe which she only dreamed of until recently when it all came into fruition.

She's slowly getting into rope flow, violin, and piano too. 

B is in her 40s but yesterday she was told she looked 24 "proud Filipina genes but age doesn't matter unless we're trying to prove something by it", no make up, in a white tee & flip flops most of the time, she's a minimalist and although she works from adventure, she's chosen to anchor in #slowliving & #simpleliving

There we do, that's a bit about B and no, she didn't go crazy..or end her life before she could screw it up. Yaaaay! 

"God, even before I met him preserved my heart and hope so I instead went out and fell in love with everything--from a place of gratitude that I get to live after all the unimaginable terrifying things, people, and places I've been. aaayiiiii!!!" ❤️

J.Colt
2019

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Writer & Advocate at icanimagine.co

So many people experience abuse & trauma. It's sad to see it evolve through time as if we were intentionally developing it like we do technology. 

It's also heartbreaking to come to an era when people don't recognize it as it happens to them anymore because suffering has become so normal. 

Resilience has become ill-celebrated. 

Despite all this, what's beautiful about our world today is more and more people are coming out with their abuse & trauma experiences in the last 5 years (finally social media could have better use).

This great development also means though that more people fall silent and say “I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine what it must’ve been like” or "I'm so sorry, we don't need to talk about it." which are the socially acceptable polite responses we're used to. 

But maybe victims & healing survivors need more than people to feel sorry for them, maybe in order to help is to know what it’s like and talk about it. 

This way, people can overcome the fear and shame in hiding and feel more empowered to be on a lifetime journey of healing. The kind that can be appreciated and enjoyed in the process. 

I can Imagine is a village, a culture, a way, a book in the making that's here to make space to talk about abuse & trauma so the world can imagine what it's like and survivors can imagine and live out the best life after through a productive, holistic, even laughter-filled minimalist approach.

We will look at abuse and trauma from a position of success rather than survival. 

Where we feel necessary to take apart the past, we will simplify the present to move swiftly to a powerful and purposeful future. 

We’ll cover the areas of Love, Finances, Health, Identity, Purpose, Body, Uglies, and more. 

And because we advocate for Filipinos, we will make out content available in Filipino language for those less proficient in English, and best, for those like us who prefer a more heartful way of communication (shempre iba parin and tagalog yo). 

Abuse & trauma happen differently for different people but no pain is greater than the other. Whatever the case, you are welcome here. Even if you feel like others have it worse, it doesn't diminish the survivor we all are.

For so long as there are people we can help get out of the living hell victims tend to think is home, let’s never stop making ways to reach even a single soul and help get them out of their Egypt. Or help a survivor's loved one support their healing better. 

Cheers to more and more people who can empathize! More who’ll say I CAN Imagine what it’s like and I CAN Imagine and achieve my best life after abuse and trauma.

"More than you can imagine." Eph3:20

We're not what we do

Let's talk anytime!

Here we go waaaah!!!

After 6 years of being told, I'm now gruntfully yielding lol fully diving in creating content to advocate Abuse & Trauma. It's not an easy decision but wherever I can be part of good purpose, God knows all my shyness I'd abandon. I'm a little uneasy and don't know where to start but I'm diving in fully no matter happens...Come support love! I need you to be my wonderwall in this journey ❤️

B comes undone here for real and quick and random and yay, no fuss viddies

Woohoo!!!

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Slow Living Morning Routine: Realize vs Rush (minimalist)

In A World Where Everyone Is An Expert | All Go Be GOC Grow Session

Cabin Zero Travel Buddy | Play Time Viddy

Support Lokal When Traveling | Super Old Vid

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