Educated
I’m a little late to the party with this one, but Educated by Tara Westover was worth the wait. If you’ve been around me over the last month, you’ve probably heard me mention this book or something in it because I honestly could not believe what I was reading a lot of the time.
Tara begins her memoir in her hometown, Bucks Peak, Idaho. Born to a mormon fundamentalist family, she didn’t have a birth certificate, go to school, see a doctor, get a drivers license, dance, be a kid, or do anything to go against her father’s survivalist mentality.
Tara, along with her brothers and mother, basically operated at the direction of her father 24/7. Whatever he said, was how it was going to be. I found this part of the story hard to read sometimes, making me so angry and sad for them.
Reading through the recounts of her childhood were difficult, and again, sometimes I was like, “No. freaking. way”. But she does so all while explaining how these events led her to where she is today... a best selling, award winning author.
She does eventually gets herself to school at the age of 17, attending college and the real world for the first time. She dives into studying the history of the Mormon faith to help get a better understanding of her family, which I find really commendable. There is also mention of her recognizing the mental health needs of her father, which again, I find commendable.
I’m sure there is still a lot of hurt and questioning that she feels in relation to her childhood, but she does a beautiful job of showing that you can overcome your circumstances. You can choose how you’regoing to handle what happens to you. And that deep understanding and growth comes at a cost and it takes time.
I did finish out this book on audio, which was fantastic and I felt that it added more emotion to the story. It’s also narrated by Julia Whelan and I could listen to her read all day long.
If you haven’t picked this one up yet, please do! It was equally sad and empowering, frustrating and full of joy.
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