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Heartbreak kicks rocks, y’all. Big ass rocks.

Hi and welcome. I started this as a personal project but hey, mi casa es tu casa. Outside of therapy (which I recognize how lucky and privileged you are to have) I found it extremely hard to find a neutral space to talk about the literal pain points of earth-shattering breakups—without judgement, advice, constant needling from friends or family of setting time limits of when you should start to “feel better”. Because grief just doesn’t stop, you learn to cope and live with it. And no matter how it happened, pain is pain. I’m here to lay on that floor with you in spirit and show you that you are never alone.

So in this house we listen, learn to set boundaries, and create space for each other as a healing community. In this house “we are attached to nothing but connected to everything”. We choose to love love, despite the “even when’s”. But the brave kind—the ones that show up—those are worth searching for, whether that’s outside of or within you. If you need a space to ask the hard questions, fire off some steam, and (highly suggested) snot cry as you write, I’m holding that space for you—however much you’ll allow it.

-Dana
Founder @DFL

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is the bravest thing you can do for yourself. You have the support to face your past and wounds, to use your pain as cure. And lots and lots of pizza.

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