Hey, I’m Ebonie👋🏾
Wife💍 Mother of six🥰 Lupus warrior💜 Writer✍🏾
And a woman fully after God’s heart🥹🙏🏾

This space....this blog, is my obedience.😮‍💨
It’s not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
It’s about showing up raw, real, and refined by God‼️

I love writing things out, it helps me process what I’m feeling and thinking. I’m someone who craves clarity, intentionality, and honesty in my words.
So here’s a glimpse into how my mind works. No filter, just heart.❤️‍🩹🫂

I’m inviting you to walk with me🫶🏾:
Through dry places,
Into healing moments,
And toward the calling we’re all being shaped for.🔥🔥🔥

Whether you’re navigating faith, identity, or just trying to stay consistent in what God called you to do, you’re welcome here.

You're in the right place!🙌🏾
Let’s grow, rest, and rise together.💕

It’s June 1st at 11PM.
Six months of 2025 have flown by💨 and I mean flown.
The first half of this year?
Heavy. Transformative. Deep.
It’s been an internal shift, one that’s felt sacred, private, even hard to explain.

May, you did something to me.
At 33, I’m seeing more clearly who I am in and with Christ.

I used to feel like I was always alone. But this past month, God invited me to take a real, honest walk down memory lane.
And I saw how He’s never left me, even when I wandered, ignored Him, or gave other things more of me than Him.

The last weekend of May, I rededicated myself to the Lord.
Gratitude overwhelmed me.🥹🙌🏾🙏🏾

Jesus first🙏🏾. Therapy second🗣️.
This combo has opened me up to healing, understanding, and growing into the woman God is shaping me to be:

It’s uncomfortable.🥴
It’s scary.🫣
It’s hard.😮‍💨
But I’m leaning on Him.🧎🏾‍♀️‍➡️
Because I trust He’s working all things together on my behalf❗️

In my last session, my therapist asked me:
“What else do you need to be intentional?”

I thought I had the answer.
But then she said:

“There is no intentionality without self-

discipline and consistency.”

And my reaction was like OOP!! She ATE me up with that!😭
My mind was blown, because what do you think I struggle with?! 🙈

Let’s be real!
Self-discipline and consistency are hard.😮‍💨
Work? That comes naturally.
But the things I actually want to do, those get buried under waves of overthinking, distraction, and chasing the next big idea!!😮‍💨

I start things strong… but give it a week or two, and I’m off chasing another great idea i've done come up with!😭

Ever feel scattered because your mind is full of so many ideas, but nothing sticks long enough to finish?🙃🙄

That’s been me.🫠

But here’s the thing, now that I’ve named it and recognized it, I can work on it:
Intentionality.🙏🏾
Self-discipline.💪🏾
Consistency.✅

That triangle is where the change lives.
That’s what I’m walking toward.📶

So give yourself a little grace, a high five and add on a fist bump too for some razzle dazzle.✋🏾🤛🏾

We’re not going to be perfect.🚫
But we’re going to be present👀, and that matters❗️

Let’s keep showing up.💜
For God. For healing. For growth.
For ourselves and for all attached to our stories.

Love youuuu💕

Until next time......🫂