Certified Life Coach
Board Certified Sexologist
Certified Sex Educator

14,000 copies sold
275 reviews on Amazon (4.5)
115 reviews on GoodReads

"Lots of options! Excellent guide! Fun ideas to play with (pun intended) and make into a reality for yourself!!" -Amazon Reviewer

“Super helpful guide with a sense of humor. Couldn't recommend enough!”
- Amazon Reviewer

“Great introduction to a host of basic sexual positions for ample-bodied and fat folk! I wish the suggestions for how to "maneuver" fat bodies during sex were more mindful of dysmorphia, perhaps consulting trans*/nb sex educators for tips on how to shift positions in more ways than the book suggests. (Girl Sex 101 does an awesome job with this!) The color-coded key that accompanies an explanation of each position was very helpful, too.” -GoodReads Reviewer

“I created The Reveal because I believe expression is liberation. In a society that celebrates conformity, let’s stop waiting for permission to be seen.
Let's show them we will no longer be invisible”

The Reveal will take a look under the hood into the messy, beautiful complexities of self-exploration and self-discovery, how we see ourselves, how others see us, and what it all means. Expect personal stories, practical exercises and how-tos, wit, cultural insights, and deep reflections that challenge norms and spark connection, intimacy and conversation. Deep dives that are honest, thought-provoking conversations on everything from pleasure to politics.

Topics range from relationships + friendship, unveiling your erotic self, sex education, and new frameworks to renew, revamp, reinvigorate, or even reinvent your life. I’ll also be talking about body acceptance, building connection, defining your purpose, cultivating your creativity, ways to decenter the male gaze, and focusing in on pleasure - whatever that means to you.

The Reveal is a place where we can all come together and discuss the nuances of life and love. It’s a community where we can ask questions, talk about ideas, life lessons, emotions, and how we speak to ourselves. The Reveal will also be where I’ll be posting personal essays (old and new), and occasional pictures, video and audio content. Often we can gain insight about our own pursuits when listening to folks talk about theirs - no matter how disparate they may be. So, I’ll also be bringing you interviews with notables and experts in their fields, all from different disciplines and walks of life who may see things from new, emerging or creative perspectives, and viewpoints.
For paid subscribers,

The Reveal is also where I will be posting excerpts from my upcoming book, The Erotic Dialect™. If you’re a paid subscriber, you’ll get a first look at the new framework for pleasure and beyond! More on that to come.

The Reveal Book Club will be coming in the Spring, and I’m taking suggestions for books that impacted you in a big way. I’ll be including, fun and no-nonsense tips and how-tos to add a lil something to your love life, and paid subscribers can email me questions to be answered on The Reveal (anonymously of course)! You’ll get to be part of a community of people who share your interests. Participate in the comments section, group chats, special AMA events, ask questions, and gain access to valuable resources + video content.

You can also support my work by becoming a Founding Member, which gets you all of the perks, PLUS one 15 min Q&A with me each year and I promise more bonuses to come. I will be checking in periodically in chats and posts to announce new features and to get feedback of what you’d like to see.

Regardless of whether you subscribe for free or for $5.00 a month, I’m happy you’re here and I aim to bring raw, relatable writing that makes you think, laugh and maybe even feel a little seen.

Looking forward!