grieving gently
Trainee Counsellor | Grief Companion
Welcome, I’m Libby. It’s really lovely to have you here.
I guess you might be here as you’re interested in learning more about your own (and potentially others) grief and loss. Yes, that topic that society usually avoids and is typically deemed a taboo. Yet, I’m here to normalise grief- to openly talk about it in all its forms and entirety. I’m here to support you in feeling less alone in this process.
I’ve experienced a lot of deep loss in my life. I’m a motherless daughter and lost my Mum to cancer when I was 13 years old. I’ve also recently lost my brother who had a rare genetic disorder. Both of these significant losses happened before turning 31 years old. I’ve also encountered multiple losses in my career, from retiring as an elite athlete, to withdrawing from my PhD studies, to experiencing ill-health and health diagnoses. Loss has rippled through my life and I truly understand the uniqueness and complexity of grief. How it differs in every individual, but is all too common in each of our lives. To be human, is to know grief.
My approach to grief is multi-dimensional. Yes, grief can shatter our hearts open and create pain and destruction in our lives. But, it can also enhance connection, love, and meaning in our lives. When we are heard and seen in our grief, as well as when we truly ‘feel’ it, it can allow for self-reflection, compassion, and a gentleness that may spark curiosity and awareness within ourselves.
Grief can be held and acknowledged in many ways, but within my work, I focus on the individual and therefore, my sessions are tailored to each person. I also use a nervous system informed approach and some of my work is underpinned by theories that highlight the importance of the mind-body connection when it comes to health and wellbeing. Other parts of my work are more flexible/intuitive, and I offer a safe space to explore and feel any emotions that are associated with grief and loss.
I truly believe that grief is something to be shared, and not experienced in isolation. For many years, I suppressed and dismissed my own grief and it made an appearance through physical symptoms within my body. It wasn’t until I leant into my grief, and created space for it within my life, that I started to connect more with myself, and my personal losses too. Loss can be painful, but not sharing and feeling the emotions associated with it, can create further internal dysregulation and conflict within ourselves.
If you would like to find out more about my work, then I would like to invite you to book a free 1-1 exploratory call with me. The link can be found in my Instagram bio shown in the icon below.
Sending Love,
Libby x