About

Who is Kensli Diggs?

Visionary, Creative Director, and Writer. You can find me in the Reuleaux triangle of Beauty, Wellness, and Hospitality. She/Her pronouns, Virgo Goddess.

I’m the mom of 2 amazing children. I was raised on the southside of Chicago and even though I moved away for a few years after college, the city called me back and is where I currently reside. I have an MBA in Hospitality with years of experience in the industry from working in casinos, to operations in hospitality interior design, to events. Make note that I completely changing up my look every month or so. Yoga is my preferred form of fitness. I am passionate about reducing food waste, building friendships, and learning new things.

When I’m not mom-ing, you can find me listening to a good audiobook. At all times, you can find me embracing my Blackness and being grateful for my blessings.

Diversity in Wellness

A Multicultural Set Of Snaps & Stories

I created Diversity in Wellness to not only highlight what wellness could and should look like, but also to dive deeper into the backgrounds of 8 women who thrive in this community. It’s important to see us, but it’s just as important to hear our stories and get to know us. For anyone who hasn’t seen themselves as the face of wellness, this is for you.

-Kensli Diggs

Kensli Diggs

Who Am I: I am a Black woman. I have an unparalleled ability to assimilate into multiple places and spaces. I work to use these opportunities to lift up others and call out wrongs. I guess that’s part of how I ended up here; creating Diversity in Wellness. I recognize that in many ways I align with the traditional images of wellness as in the thin, cisgender female in her 20s. But like many of the other women, I think there is a lack of racial representation in the wellness industry. There can also be an unconsciousness when it comes to various elements of wellness. This could include operating under the assumption that a person understands how important it is to be physically active or eat healthy, assuming a person has the time to dedicate to wellness practices, and of course a lack of understanding in regards to a person’s financial means.

Project Reflection:
You’ve seen us, you’ve heard us but were you listening? Did you hear all that we’ve had to overcome along our wellness journey? Traditional depictions of what wellness looks like, body image issues, immigration, substance abuse, navigating white spaces, unhealthy relationships, disease, and injuries.

I’m really glad everyone felt comfortable and confident to share these stories because I know there are others who can relate to their journey. I’m incredibly inspired by this group of strong women. Personally I may not be a marathon runner or a certified instructor, but I am on a wellness journey. This looks different for each of us, as showcased by these women. It doesn’t matter where you start, just make the choices that are best for you.

Wellness In The Community: When it comes to diversity the number one step is being accountable. We have all said and done things that looking back on them, could be offensive to others. Allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and open and have the hard dialogue is the most important part. Brands and companies who have only featured a specific type of person, or those that only offer specific sizes, or those that don’t allow access to all people; should work to reflect on what they’ve done in the past, acknowledge their mistakes, and move forward with a plan driven by diversity. This is the only way we can actively work to widen the reach of wellness and create a more inclusive community.

My Past: In November of 2015 I was living in St Louis and decided to move back to Chicago with my 4 month old daughter. I left an abusive relationship and was feeling really low; low confidence, low on motivation, and low energy. One of the activities my daughter and I would do together were family yoga classes. As a 5 year old, she’s now more rambunctious and high energy and less interested in moving through a yoga flow. My interest in yoga continued to casually grow and I started to find myself at various wellness events. One event was a panel discussion and I was immediately drawn to the presence and high energy of Jeana Anderson Cohen, founder of aSweatLife. After the event I reached out to her, we grabbed coffee, and she told me all about aSweatLife. I became an aSweatLife ambassador last year and the timing could not have been more perfect. On average it takes a victim 7 times before they leave an abusive relationship for good. Now a single mom of two, I couldn’t have predicted that I would rely so heavily on all of the practices I’ve picked up in the wellness community. From doing yoga in my living room, to a daily journaling practice, to focused and intentional eating I’ve been able to remain positive and optimistic. I’m part of a community and friends who I can create goals with, feel supported by, and have the opportunity to turn ideas into reality. This is wellness.

Final Thoughts: I want to thank Anchisa, Chandra, Crystal, Lizzy, Nia, Nimbe, Erika and Christiana for your time, contributions, and trust in me to convey your stories. I wouldn’t have been able to complete this project without each one of you. When I reached out, I had no idea what this would turn into and I’m so proud of the end result. We utilized this opportunity to showcase ourselves as a representation of those who don’t often see themselves. When it comes to diversity I recognize that there are several groups we didn’t get the chance to showcase including Trans women, women with a visible disability, and so many more. I do hope that after this 8 section series on Diversity in Wellness, there’s no question on what the faces of wellness can look like. Wellness is any of us and wellness is all of us.

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Erika Lowerr

Who Am I: I am white. My family’s heritage is primarily German on both sides, with my grandparents on my mother’s side having immigrated from Germany. Due to the strong tie to Germany, this is the culture we most celebrate at home. I have learned what a privilege it is to know your roots & have such a strong connection to your family’s heritage.

My Practice: I practice wellness professionally as a yoga teacher, and personally as a lover of movement - that means anything that gets my body moving, I’m usually down! I grew up dancing competitively and was always drawn to music and movement. It wasn’t until I took a 1-credit Yoga class as an elective in college, that I found true connection to this ancient practice. We learned postures, but much of the class was also devoted to education of the philosophy - the Yamas, Niyamas, the Yoga Sutras, the Chakras. The spiritual tied with the physical, filled a void within me. 2 years ago I finally took the leap (and large financial investment) to earn my 200-hour yoga certification. I chose to enter the wellness space, specifically in yoga, to share the practice with others. I have gained so much from the physical and the spiritual teachings, that I found a purpose in teaching. I am an Enneagram 3, so I’ll just say there isn’t enough space or time for everything I want to accomplish in the next 5 years; if you know, you know. To name a few...I want to master forearm stand (pincha), expand my influence in the wellness space, and bring the practice of yoga to as many people as I possibly can!

Advice & Reflection: My advice to ALL WOMEN is to know your why and be yourself. I spent a lot of time in my first few months of teaching adhering to a very rigid way I thought yoga teachers were supposed to act. When I finally started letting go of those ideas, when I started showing up as myself, I found a stronger connection with the yogis around me. I challenge others to join me in working to open the wellness space to all. The next time you see someone new in a class, especially someone representing the minority in that space - say hello. Learn their name, ask them about their week, ask them about their favorite anything - music, color, celebrity, Netflix show. Foster connection. And if you are really vibing with this new person you just became BFFs with in the 5 minutes before class, make plans to workout together again!

Wellness In The Community: To bring wellness to more communities, we have to literally bring wellness to more communities! There are many neighborhoods in Chicago that don’t have gyms or boutique fitness studios. Recently, I learned that my neighboring Humboldt Park community doesn’t have a yoga studio - and there are some incredible people working to change that. Location and proximity are definitely important. Add to that price, imagery, staff, and patrons; which are all contributing to the wellness industry remaining as exclusive as it is today. People who see themselves reflected in the staff and patrons of wellness, take that for granted. We have to find ways to break down some of these barriers. Pay-what-you-can models that businesses such as ASweatLife are adopting, is just one way we can open the door.

Recommendations: Eb & Flow is actually the first yoga studio I practiced at when I moved to Chicago almost 5 years ago. One of the first things I noticed was the wide range of bodies, genders, and abilities all in one space. Eboni Howard, the owner & yoga teacher extraordinaire, creates an environment for all to grow as humans and as yogis. This studio will always hold a special place in my heart! Woke Chicago is pretty new as a sort of yoga & community wellness startup. Their focus is bringing yoga to the Humboldt Park community through offering yoga classes to Humboldt Park residents for FREE. All other participants are asked to purchase a ticket, with the funds going directly towards their goals & community action. I actually just attended a Sunday Yoga with them and I was in love!

My Future: I differ from many of the other women involved in this project. It is no mystery that a mid-20s, moderately healthy, white woman is the center of what the industry is projecting. In fact, I’ll admit I was intimidated & a little nervous about how I would play a role in this project. It is for this reason that I feel I have a responsibility to spend my privilege in ways which uplift the women standing beside me and the multitude of other BIPOC individuals in our communities. Supporting BIPOC-owned businesses, leaders, and individuals in not only wellness, but in all spaces has become a central focus for me. Support can take many forms, and I’ve sought to support not only financially, but also with my voice on social media and in my circles of influence. As an instructor, I have an even greater responsibility to provide a space which welcomes people from all backgrounds, all levels, all communities. Normalize the fact that you don’t have to have the expensive clothes or a specific shape to practice yoga! Yoga is for everybody. Wellness is for everybody.

Final Thoughts: Diversity is so, so important for a multitude of reasons. When we bring people together from all walks of life, all races, all backgrounds - everybody benefits. I have found so many friends & such a community in wellness, I want to share that with the world. I think that the movement we are experiencing now has truly opened my own eyes to what is happening around me. And once you’ve been awakened, it’s impossible to close your eyes again. I hope that this project brings the same to many others. I hope that in seeing these images, reading these interviews, you gain a greater understanding. I first met Kensli through bookclub, and we have developed a strong, compassionate relationship through having the tough conversations many of us are experiencing today. I was so honored when she asked me to collaborate with her on such a special project, how could I possibly say no?! The actual photo shoot was even more incredible than I could have imagined. A group of women together to tackle Diversity in Wellness is pure magic. We laughed, we cheered each other on, we exchanged energy & ideas, and we made new friends in the process! Any time I leave an event, a gathering of any kind, and I have new friends - I consider that the best part of the whole thing. Ask my boyfriend how many times each week I come home and say, “I was at blah, blah, blah & I made so many new friends!"

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Nimbe Juarez

Who Am I: I was born in Mexico and I’m 100% Mexican but having grown up in the US, has made me feel American. When I attend workout classes or studios, my skin tone is darker than most of the other class attendees. I used to feel very self-conscious and overthink everything I was doing because of it. I also didn’t fit the image of what someone who was ‘athletic’ or ‘healthy’ looked like because I wasn’t the smallest or thinnest in class. I live in a neighborhood on the southside of Chicago that is primarily composed of Latinos and the average income is a lot lower than what it is in the neighborhoods I take classes in. Something that was always in the back of my head is the fact that I was not a citizen of the US. I was a Dreamer and only in the country with a work permit. Although that status was not something I shared or people knew about at the beginning, I used to try to push it back and not think about it because I didn’t want others to judge me.

My Practice: I practice wellness by making sure that I stay grounded and give myself time to just breathe and sweat. I also work on reminding myself that wellness doesn’t mean working out every day and that I need rest and to be gentle to my body. It has been a lifelong process to get me to where I am now. I grew up swimming and playing water polo since I was about 7 years old and continued through college. After that, I went through an unhealthy relationship where I didn’t prioritize myself. This led me to not feel confident or happy. I struggled with my weight and eating. After that ended, I re-discovered my passion for health and fitness. I found the aSweatLife community in Chicago and continued my love for running and triathlons. Eventually I received my personal training certification and started teaching group fitness classes and personal training. This combination of mind and body is what makes me be the person I am today.

Wellness In The Community: I think we should work with local organizations and already established groups in underrepresented communities as a first step. People within the communities are close to each other and sometimes have a hard time accepting or trying new things. Being placed out of our comfort zone is hard and to try to make changes, will be a process that takes time. It’s also about maintaining the work and dedicating to long term progress. It’s not just about doing one thing, one time. Affordable resources are hard to come by and a lot of times, people in our communities are struggling to have their basic needs met. They have to worry about those necessities first before actually thinking about wellness. We have to teach that in order to stay strong and support our community and families, it’s important to work on ourselves and maintain our health to make an impact.

My Future: In the next 5 years I would love to have finished my MBA and reached a management position in a company. I will have lived in New York for a few years and have come back home. I would also love to grow my personal training business and be able to help more people. I am hoping by then I’ll be working with more organizations in the city and have more connections in order to reach more of the Latino community and provide resources regarding wellness and training. I want to help expand the message to the community that wellness is something needed for all.

Advice For Others: People are open to meeting others and a lot of people have the same fear of being judged or rejected. No one is perfect and this is a journey and you don’t arrive there overnight. Find something you like and really throw yourself out of your comfort zone. Sometimes it’s when you think you will fail that you come out with more than you ever thought. Take that one step and don’t think about everything that could go wrong. All it takes is that first step. The details and everything else come after. But truly find a space or group where you feel you can be yourself and grow with it, it makes a huge impact having that support system.

Recommendations: Some of my favorite places to workout are Fit Results, The Space Between, Train Moment, Urban Athlete, Barefoot Power Yoga, November Project. Some of my favorite trainers in the city include Lou Centeno, Kelita Hollins, Maggie Umberger and David Carson.

Final Thoughts: I believe that there is no set look or background that someone has to have in order to be able to share about wellness. Everyone should be open and ready to enjoy health and fitness and care without picturing a specific image. We are all very different and each one of us has a unique story to share. Coming together brings a lot of points of views and shows us how we can accept and learn about each other. I wanted to participate in this project because I feel that voices need to be heard and stories need to be told. We are in this together. Wellness should be shared and should grow to become a part of everyone’s life and not just those who have additional income. I hope that what we share will resonate with someone and create that chain of change.

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Anchisa Pipatpinyopong

Who Am I: I am from Bangkok, Thailand and I moved to the US when I was in third grade. My parents wanted my brothers and I to come here to learn English for one year. They realized that one year was not enough, so here I am – knowing English much better than Thai, completely different from when I could barely communicate with my fellow third grade classmates and feeling overwhelmed by culture shock. For a long time, I dreamt of going back “home” to continue my childhood in Thailand. At some point, I realized that I had a conflicting mindset of not wanting to be seen as an Asian-American because I didn’t feel like an American, while wanting to fit in with my peers at the same time. Before I realized it I started to slowly lose my Thai culture, language, and Buddhism practices. I didn’t know how to feel about becoming more Americanized because I am seen as an “outsider” in the US and in Thailand. Now, I am proud to have a unique perspective with my “third culture,” where I integrate beliefs and practices from the “best of both worlds.”

Thoughts on Wellness: There are many online resources about health and wellness, but I noticed that a lot of the content comes from people with similar backgrounds and lifestyle. Research and opinions that currently exist overlook many communities, so I believe big corporations and organizations should advocate for more diverse representation in their marketing as well as support underrepresented communities. COVID lockdown has connected people more online than ever before, so this is an opportunity for more collaborations and wellness programs that address gaps in resources.

Personal Experience: My body type would be considered different from a lot of Asian women - I build muscles easily and I have very muscular legs from figure skating. I noticed this when I started going back to Thailand during the summers of high school and college. I think that people perceive my body size as average or even smaller in the US, but most girls in Thailand tend to be very lean with little to no muscle tone. I definitely stand out whenever I'm there!

My Practice: I have been involved in sports my whole life - from figure skating to dance to cheerleading and other random things like soccer/tennis/golf/horseback riding/skiing. I stayed active in college by being on the cheerleading team, but I wanted to stay active and healthy after college. Coming to Chicago for my graduate program was when I realized that I can no longer eat whatever I wanted and just run to stay fit. I met a classmate who loves to dance and she found a perfect studio for dance classes: Free Mvmt Shop! We went to our first class together and kept going back. I realized that working out doesn't have to be boring and I set out to find more fitness studios in Chicago. I joined a 6 week fitness challenge that made me aware of the importance of healthy eating habits. For the first time, I was consciously thinking about my health in a more multifaceted way. Since I started to be more interested in wellness, I’ve brought back practices like meditation for mindfulness – a common Buddhist practice that I was taught as a child, but I now have a much better understanding of its importance. From then, I learned more and more about health and wellness by reading articles, finding scientific literature, and listening to podcasts ~ which was how I found aSweatLife and later applied to become an ambassador!

Recommendations & Advice: Free Mvmt Shop is my favorite dance/yoga/fitness studio in Chicago. I feel a sense of community there and they continued to engage with the community by holding virtual classes and events, along with donating to charitable causes. I also enjoyed going to Lululemon classes in Lincoln Park and BodyRok for pilates. My advice would be, do what makes you feel good physically and mentally for the short as well as the long term! Look to other people not for comparison, but for inspiration! There is an overwhelming amount of information out there, so I would start by learning from one source and expanding from there.

My Future: My goals are to practice mindfulness everyday, inspire others to take control of their health/wellbeing, find a fulfilling career that positively impacts people's lives, connect with more like-minded people in different communities, and learn something new everyday.

Final Thoughts: I chose to participate in this project because I wanted to be more open and practice speaking out. Another reason was not seeing many people like me in the fitness/wellness space. Diversity in wellness spaces are so important and I hope my participation in this project can help shed a light on that. I feel like I have a sense of belonging anywhere because I am who I am no matter what my surroundings are!

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Lizzy Diaz-Ortiz

Who Am I: I am Puerto Rican and identify as Latina. I decided to enter wellness because I felt I had a different perspective to offer that I did not see represented in this space. For years, I practiced yoga (you know that ancient practice originating with Brown people?), but I saw only young, White, Lululemon-clad, size 0 female instructors all teaching the same type of class. That “yoga model” is the Western standard, but in class I would look around and the students varied in age, size, ability, color, and gender. I would have loved to walk into a class and see someone like me teaching in any way – Brown, plus-size, older, anything other than the “model.”

My Practice: I practice wellness in various ways, some traditional and others not as obvious. For physical activity that means Pilates, yoga, and strength training preferably with friends because it’s more fun which boosts my mood. For mental health, I meditate and turn off notifications, alerts, and sounds on all devices to reduce anxiety and distractions throughout the day. Also, I try to give myself a home spa day weekly, and while that doesn’t always happen, having alone time in the bath or while masking forces me to take a few moments to slow down and enjoy some quiet. Over the years I have also developed and tried to maintain good sleep hygiene. I use a white noise machine (it really works!), blackout shades, and I do not generally watch TV in my bedroom before bed. Lastly, food is a passion of mine so I try to eat well by cooking most of my meals at home and eating real food when I can. I also have a daily tea ritual that helps soothe and ground me. However, I am not above Trader Joe’s Salt & Vinegar chips!

My Future: I am plus-sized and older so when people look at me, they do not think I “look like a yoga teacher” or so I’ve been told. I have also suffered several injuries over the years which has changed my yoga practice and overall approach to fitness. In my 20s, the focus was on a physical aesthetic. Now that I’m in my 40s I want longevity, strength, and vitality. It wasn’t until I took classes at The Lab in the West Loop where my first teacher was a 50+ retired paramedic male recovering from multiple injuries; I felt I was in an inclusive space. I knew after the second or third class I would finally take the yoga teacher training I had contemplated for years with Carmen Aguilar, the previous owner. It took another few years to make it happen, but I finally did it. I’m happy to say even though the studio changed ownership, the community is still inclusive and fantastic. I would love to go back to teaching yoga and obtain my Pilates teacher certification. On a personal note, I would love to travel to some of my bucket list places like Thailand, Vietnam, and Japan.

Recommendations: Whew, there are so many! I’ll stick with my three staples of yoga, Pilates, and strength training. The Lab Yoga in West Loop with Chris Gilmore, Veronica Feldmeier, and Nicole Schneider for amazing classes that will challenge you physically and advance your practice immensely. Club Pilates in Wicker Park and Lincoln Park has two of my favorite instructors Annie Gemkow and Corryne Graf for reformer Pilates; both will make your booty burn! For strength training, Rae Raichlin of Ladies Who Lift is unparalleled.

Advice For Others: Try different things and look for a program, teacher, or studio where you feel like you belong because you’ll spend a lot of hours with the people there in a training program or teaching so make sure you like the community. Also, do your research and talk to people who have been through the certification program you’re interested in participating. These programs cost a lot of money and require a significant investment of your time. For years I wanted to take yoga teacher training and attended at least half a dozen info sessions, but there was something that never felt quite like a fit so I waited; it probably took about eight years before I found the program that worked for me. Do not rush into something you’ll regret.

My Past: Last year, I fractured my ankle and tore my Achilles completely. After surgery, I spent 2019 in bed and going through months of physical therapy. It has been quite the set back and test of my non-existent patience to slowly build back my strength and flexibility. It’s a long journey I am still on, but I am so grateful I had a fitness routine and wellness practice as foundations to remind me what is possible for my body despite a painful recovery. I know I am strong because of it. I am hoping in a year or two I can look back on this rehabilitation period and see how far I’ve come.

Final Thoughts: While I see the industry trying to showcase diverse people and bodies especially now, it needs to improve greatly to make everyone feel they are welcome and that wellness includes them because the stereotype can be discouraging. The average American woman is between a size 16 to 18 and BIPOC buying power is in the trillions so there are more women who look like me than not. If the wellness industry wants to continue thriving, it needs to embrace this reality. I chose to participate because I want to serve as a beacon for all the other womxn out there like me just as I would’ve like to see over the years.

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Chandra Chakravarthi

Who Am I: I'm first generation Indian-American. I have two autoimmune diseases (Atopic Dermatitis and Lichen Planus) that are sometimes invisible and stay dormant until something triggers it. It’s easy to forget about them, but once something sets it off, it can be debilitating. These two illnesses have also triggered other health issues for me including hair loss, insomnia, anxiety, and gut issues. So, while these aren’t life-threatening and can be perceived as superficial problems, it’s been a journey to figure out how to manage them and not allow myself to feel ashamed about my skin. Having two chronic illnesses that started showing up when I was in middle school forced me to think about wellness early on. I spent my teenage years continually finding ways to hide all the rashes and scars that I’d get and going through periods where the itching was so terrible that I’d break down in tears.

My Past: Whenever I looked at myself in the mirror or when I looked down at my body, I felt a lot of unwarranted, irrational shame. It’s hard to explain the embarrassment that would hit me when I’d walk past someone or interact with people, and I’d see or feel their eyes automatically drift to the rashes and scars before making eye contact. Then, there was the stress that came with knowing that I could spontaneously experience a flare up. It was a horrible cycle to have to cope with. Being a teenager is such a weird and complicated time, and unfortunately, when I was a teen, there was such a homogenous standard of “beauty and health”. You’re conditioned to believe you have to look a certain way and it just makes you feel like more of an outsider. There wasn’t anyone that looked like me, nor was there anyone who suffered from these conditions openly talking about it so that it could be normalized. As I was dealing with these problems, I ended up channeling those feelings of shame into my eating habits. I went through a brief period in high school where I had a toxic relationship with food. My thinking was if I can’t control these rashes, then I can control my weight. The turning point for me was seeing a picture of myself and how alarmingly skinny I appeared. It served as my wakeup call to start mending my relationship with food. I’m fully aware that it’s not that simple for a lot of people who go through similar experiences, so I count my blessings that I was able to work through my situation before it became much worse.

My Practice: My views on wellness have evolved, but I still consider my approach to it very much a work in progress. I’ve gone through periods where I’ve had a warped perception of it and made toxic choices as a result. I used to think wellness was just related to exercise and eating habits, but it goes beyond that and looks different for everyone. These days, it’s about checking in with myself to see how I’m feeling. It’s accepting that there’s an ebb and flow to my emotions, especially right now because it’s a surreal time. It’s practicing gratitude and appreciating the little things, like being able to go for a short walk. It’s staying active through activities that give me joy and challenge me to go outside my comfort zone, rather than doing something that I dread or what’s popular. It’s eating food that nourishes my body, but also indulging in things like pizza and desserts and feeling guilt-free. It’s making conscious choices about what I put on my skin so that I’m not exasperating my skin conditions. It’s taking breaks from my phone by turning it off or not looking at social media. It’s continuing to be intentional with how I invest in wellness-centric products and services by doing my due diligence to find out if brands support diversity and inclusion.

Advice For Others: I learned, the idea of wellness goes beyond just eating healthy or staying active. Everyone practices wellness differently depending on what their circumstances are and what’s accessible to them. You define what wellness is to you by identifying what matters to you and what you want in your life. Also, it’s okay if your views on it continue to change. Be kind to yourself. Don’t be embarrassed by any health conditions you may have or by your appearance or what your body can or can’t do. You don’t owe anybody an explanation about your body or health. And don’t give into the societal expectations that come from family, friends, or peers. It’s okay to dismiss what’s considered to be the normal standards of wellness and health because it’s unrealistic, and we should be celebrating all bodies. We’re all beautiful, worthy, and deserve respect and acceptance. Reevaluate your lifestyle. Find ways to practice positivity, express gratitude, and focus on hobbies. Be kind yourself. Reject the whole concept of dieting and question the exclusive, toxic, misleading messaging that is so prevalent in wellness.

Wellness in the Community: I think the whole concept of wellness needs to be reimagined, so that everyone feels supported, empowered, and included. The wellness space comes across as exclusive and in some ways elitist. While I think the intent is to cultivate a sense of community, unfortunately, it ends up doing the opposite because you’re not always seeing a diverse group of people represented nor being appealed to. I think there are also certain forms of fitness that can be inaccessible when exercise is meant for everyone. I want to see companies remove the toxic language from their branding, values, and messaging that shuns certain groups and normalize that all bodies are beautiful and should be celebrated. Additionally, I think it needs to start at the top. The leadership team and/or owners need to be cognizant about creating an inclusive and safe space and ensuring that the company and employee’s values reflect that. They need to hire diverse people and remove the microaggressions. They need to find genuine ways to partner with different communities around the city. Find ways to make the whole concept of wellness less intimidating. Understand that wellness looks different for each one of us. Everyone deserves access to wellness resources, and there needs to be concerted effort to foster inclusive communities no matter what product or service you offer.

Recommendations: I'm a dance fitness enthusiast, so I love Diva Dance, MVFitnessChi, and Werq. Pre-Covid, I had the opportunity to take a dance class called ShoBiz Fit, and it was so fun. These places and classes are on my list when it’s safe to offer more in-person group classes – Groove3, Healthy Hood, Puzzle Box, and Free Mvmt Shop. Until then, I’m living vicariously through their Instagram accounts. Dance classes make me feel empowered and confident, and I get so much joy from attending them. If you’re interested in boxing or barre classes, I recommend checking out Mayweather Boxing and Fitness and Barre Code in River North. I love trying different fitness classes around the city and I’ll try any fitness class at least once. That’s what’s most important about staying active – you need to have fun doing it. I don’t believe in working out if you’re not enjoying it.

Final Thoughts: I’ve learned to embrace the mantra that “I’m enough in my skin and body.” I still live with illnesses and I still get rashes at the most inconvenient times. I’ve yet to pinpoint what really triggers them, but I no longer feel any shame with my skin, and I’m at peace with the possibility that they might never go away. In the greater scheme of things, I’m lucky enough to be healthy in other ways so I focus on that. I support embracing diversity in not just the wellness industry but in other spaces where it needs to be acknowledged and fostered. I want other people to know that you’re not alone in struggling to define how wellness looks for you and rejecting what society defines it as. It’s about exploring the idea of it and figuring out what works for you. It’s also about pushing your boundaries when you’re willing and able to. Sharing my opinions and experiences on certain topics in a public way is way outside my comfort zone. It’s such an honor to be a part of this project, and to be included with such a badass, inspiring group of women and I’m so grateful for this experience!

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Crystal Rosales

Who Am I: My parents emigrated from Mexico to the US in the 1960’s, so I am first generation Mexican American. I tend to identify as Mexican, but also as Latina.

My Practice: I’ve wanted to be a distance runner my whole adult life. However, I felt like I wasn't fast enough or even knew where to start. It just felt so intimidating! After making a major life change in late 2018, I decided to finally challenge myself and become a “runner” in 2019. So I went all the way in without looking back! I ran the Shamrock Shuffle 8k in March, joined the 3RUN2 running crew in July, ran my first half marathon in September and eventually signed up for two 2020 marathons. I still can’t believe I went from barely running a mile to currently running 40+ miles a week in less than a year!

Advice For Others: My biggest advice is that it’s never too late to develop a wellness practice. I was 33 years old when I finally started to worry about my overall health. From joining new communities to training for marathons, I’m happy to finally be exploring all the things I’ve always wanted to do. Plus I feel 100 times better than I ever did in my 20s! On another note, having a gym membership is a privilege. It’s not fair that not having access to a gym is denying people the health benefits of wellness practices. Something I’ve noticed during the pandemic is that trainers and studios have been forced to think outside of the box and host workouts in unconventional locations like public parks. We should keep that trend going by hosting free workouts, group runs or even nutrition donation drop offs in underserved communities.

My Past: My major life change was finally getting sober from alcohol in December 2018. Most people assume that alcoholics are older men (usually white) that have lost everything and are now on the street, but in reality, that’s usually not the case. Here I am, a 34 year old latina woman, who has quietly struggled with substance abuse for more than a decade. I made mistakes and hurt my body, but I also didn’t hit the proverbial rock bottom. There’s still so much stigma around addiction and recovery, which is why I've decided to live loud, proud and sober to help break those misconceptions and others who may also be struggling.

My Future: Part of the reason it took me so long to get sober was because I didn’t know any women who looked like me and didn’t drink. Also, traditional programs like AA are mostly men and encourage you to use labels. That can be a lot for someone who is just trying to question their relationship with alcohol. I would love to create a safe space/community for Chicago BIPOC sober and sober curious women to connect, workout, run, but most of all, feel supported on their journeys. I planned to start making this happen after I ran my first marathon in April, but unfortunately the pandemic put both of those things on hold. Hope to make my marathon and this group come to fruition in the next few years!

Wellness in the Community: Community is everything! My wellness journey completely changed once I joined the 3RUN2 Running Crew. For so many years, I was terrified to attend a group run, but when I finally went, I was immediately welcomed by this incredible group of Chicago runners. I began to learn so much about the sport and what it meant to be part of a community. I always say that’s when I finally fell absolutely in love with running. Being part of the crew inspired me to join other wellness communities like aSweatLife. It may be hard to step out of your comfort zone at first, but it’s always so rewarding to be able to cultivate new friendships and connections via wellness! In regards to recommendations, Liu Gross at Crosstown Fitness is one of my absolute favorites! His energy is so contagious and motivating. I’ve also always enjoyed his questions or quotes of the day on the whiteboard. Even though he kicked my butt with the workout, I always leave the studio feeling even better than I did coming in.

Final Thoughts: I wanted to share my journey of being a sober latina runner because it can be difficult as a WOC to navigate mostly white wellness spaces. I didn't feel represented or like I fit in, so I was so hesitant to explore my wildest fitness and wellness goals for a really long time. Again, I wanted to show that there's always time and that you can do it on your terms. Also, wellness is now an essential part of my sobriety toolkit. Running, yoga and meditation have helped me develop better coping mechanisms when I'm having a tough day or craving alcohol. I am grateful for these new practices that help keep me sober.

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Nia Ellis

Who Am I: I am a dark skinned, Black woman with natural hair. All 3 of those are opposite of the traditional images of wellness. I’m almost always stared at when entering spaces filled with these “traditional” looking people.

My Past: In winter of 2017, I was the heaviest I had ever been so I decided to try something new that I thought could help shed a few pounds: yoga. Stepping into Core Power Yoga on that Tuesday changed my life. I started practicing yoga and learning how to better care for my body, mind and overall health. The next summer I picked up running and the rest was history. I was not aware of the love, both self and community, I would experience but I am so glad I made the choices I did. Now I practice wellness by moving my body (walking, running, yoga, biking) and nourishing myself in every way possible.

Wellness In the Community: One way that we can bring wellness to more communities is by continuing to highlight the WHOLE wellness community and not just members with the cookie cutter image. People are more likely to try something if they know there will be people who they can identify with. I can be a loner so I don’t mind going to an event or trying an activity but for other people, they NEED that representation, that connection to even get through the door.

Recommendations: My absolute favorite trainer is Coach K at Train Moment aka Mama K. She is hands down one of the best and offers so much love, encouragement and push in just a 50 minute class!

Advice For Others: I would tell them to begin where you are; in your bedroom, at a studio, in your neighborhood. Also, do not ever compare yourself to other people. Everyone was a beginner at some point. If you don’t enjoy a certain thing or activity, try something else. There are so many offerings and never a reason to participate in something that is not serving you!!

My Future: In the next 5 years, fitness wise, I will run my first marathon and hope to complete yoga teacher training. I love to see Black women yoga teachers, their presence in the yoga space brings me so much joy and peace and I would like to give that to other Black women. Non fitness wise, I will continue to learn, grow and connect with my communities.

Final Thoughts: First, I am overjoyed to have had the opportunity to be a part of this project. Thank you, Kensli, for the opportunity and the other amazing women on this project. I chose to participate because I love wellness and being a part of this huge community but there is a lack of diversity and I want other Black and Brown women, plus sized women and women who don’t look like the typical image of wellness to know that there is space for them. There are women who look like you here, you are not alone.

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August 14: In Person, Remote Learning

The final day of the week is Family First Fridays!

With Chicago Public Schools officially going remote in the fall, many parents will have to decide what to do for childcare. The idea of “in person, remote learning” may seem like a contradiction but it’s a necessity for many. CPS has committed to remote learning that includes more interactive time with the children each day. Working parents will find it challenging to keep up with facilitating this learning and their own work.

Many have opted for sending their kids to smaller daycares and programs like the one at the YMCA. These have promised assistance with the children’s remote coursework throughout the day while giving them a place to go safely. I haven’t made a final choice for my rising Kindergartener but I’m definitely considering this option.

YMCA: In Person, Remote Learning

August 13: The Mask Debate

Welcome to “Trendy Thursdays”

Whether we like it or not masks and facial coverings have become a daily requirement for anyone operating in public. I’m not sure why there is such a debate about wearing them or what makes the topic such a point of contention. Why yes, just like many people I’ve experienced small acne breakouts on my chin and cheeks. This still doesn’t make me want to risk my health and not wear a mask. I’ve also done full outdoor workouts in a mask. It wasn’t as annoying as I anticipated it would be.

I’ve managed to match my small collection of cloth masks to my first few weeks of work outfits and that’s honestly the most important part to me. I feel safe a protected when wearing a mask in public. I don’t lose anything when wearing one so why not.

CNN on the Mask Debate

August 12: Big Goals

Today is:
aSweatLife Wednesdays

On Wednesdays I’d like to take the time to share about things happening with my friends, new updates/events, and anything goal related.

aSweatLife aims to improve the lives of everyone by providing workouts, wellness articles, and an empowering community. aSweatLife ambassadors are encouraged to live aSweatLife with more in depth involvement including a variety of workshops to attend, setting goals, and building friendships. All that said, the Ambassador application is open until the end of the month so I highly encourage you to apply.

I want to call out my big goal. The reason I started blogging was to reflect on my thoughts and stories and find somewhere to keep them all together. I want to see what gets called to the surface and what shows up when I look back. With these stories I plan to write a book. It’ll be my first autobiography, hopefully 1 of a series. I just think I have so much to say and share that the time is now.

Photo is one of the pictures I snapped during #SweatworkingWeek.

aSweatLife Ambassador Application

August 11: Good Vibes Only

Continuing with my new format, welcome to

Today I Did It Right Tuesday
Based on the journaling approach, on Tuesdays I’d like to take the time and reflect on what I’ve done “right” today.

When it comes to family and friends we can often have a blind spot for their behavior towards us that doesn’t serve us for the better. I work diligently to surround myself with good vibes only and release any energy that is negative. What this sometimes requires is for me to block out family or close friends. They say that some people are only in your life for a reason and some people are only in your life for a season.

We should try to decipher what it is that people are bringing to our lives and in what why they contribute. Then it’s easier to release any negative energy. Today I blocked someone who thought it was their job to intervene in my life and tell me what I should and should not be in support of. I’m honestly feeling better already.

Today I Did It Right

August 10: Under Eye Circles

I wanted to start this week off with a new format that highlights the companies I’m most involved with and to create more structure to this collection of my random thoughts.

So today is Makeover Monday featuring SpaDerma!

I recently took on the role of Spa Manager at SpaDerma’s Lincoln Park location. With this awesome opportunity comes the necessity to familiarize myself with the products and brands we offer. My first and probably most needed product is Neocutis Lumiere Eye Cream.

I’ve always focused on the dark circles under my eyes when doing my makeup because I felt like it was my most noticeable imperfection. After only a couple days I’ve noticed quite a difference! I actually didn’t feel the need to put on any concealer. Highly recommend!

SpaDerma Products- Lincoln Park

August 9: Homeownership Part 3

After receiving the reserves I finally got the clear to close. I closed on the most wonderful home July 2018 and moved in over the next few weeks before my apartment lease ended. The timing could not have been more ideal. Some projects I took care of immediately and there’s still so much I’d like to get done. I have no regrets about buying my home. Even though the process was long, complicated, invasive, and at times frustrating; I’m very appreciative of everything I had to go through to get where I am today.

Some tips I was advise anyone looking to purchase their first home:

-envision what you want and be willing to pivot when needed. I originally wanted to find a home in certain neighborhoods but with the amount I’d pay in property taxes it just wasn’t feasible.

-remain confident and positive. The entire process can be really lengthy and at times discouraging but don’t give up.

-save your money. Not just the down payment and closing costs but also reserves and know that just because you’re pre-approved for an amount doesn’t mean you have to buy a home that is that expensive.

Millennials Now Buying Homes

August 8: Homeownership Part 2

The next step was partnering with a realtor who understood what I envisioned for myself but also what would be realistic for me. This was actually one of the most challenging parts of the process. My initial realtor and lender were more interested in quickly getting me in any home than they were into finding me the right home. Because of this, the first property I was under contract in had a rushed and problematic inspection. It felt like we flew by all the problems and everyone dismissed me when I raised concerns.

I was very fortunate that I had a family friend as my attorney and she was the one to speak up and say this is not the right property for you and that’s okay. We’re going to pull out now because we can and do not let anyone make you feel guilty because this is exactly what the inspection period is for. She also recommended a new lender who recommended a new realtor. This was the dream team! My realtor found me the perfect place before it was even listed. I offered asking price thanks to my lender and had a thorough inspection. Being under contract this time was easier and more comfortable than the first.

After an in-depth and thorough comb through my finances for the past few months I was really surprised when a week or two away from closing I was all of a sudden required to show an additional $5,000 in reserves. My initial response was annoyed and angry that they would think I had this money laying around somewhere and didn’t disclose it. I soon found out this is very common practice for lenders and Black buyers. My mom said she had the same situation 20+ years prior when she bought her first house. She ultimately had the reserve funds gifted to her by an uncle and I had the reserve funds gifted to me by my mother.

Home Buying Tips For Black People

August 7: Homeownership Part 1

Allow me to start from the beginning. In December of 2015 my daughter and I found ourselves sharing a bedroom and living in my mom’s house. A couple months into this life restart I knew it wasn’t a long term situation for me and I started telling myself I was going to buy a house. At this time I was in debt with non existent savings and a poor credit score.

I moved into a rental apartment after about 6 months. My daughter and I lived outside of the city to save money even though it wasn’t the easiest daily commute. I was working downtown at the time and would drive into the city to take the L the rest of the way. By mid 2017, a year into renting my apartment, I knew it was time to begin my homeownership journey. I renewed my lease and transitioned to a new job. I told anyone and everyone that I was planning to buy a house. Most people were in disbelief of this because I didn’t have a high paying job, I was a single mom, and I had only recently gotten out from under my cloud of debt.

I added a picture of a house to my refrigerator and my vision board to look at it each day and manifest what still felt very nearly impossible. I started talking with mortgage lenders to find out what options would work best for me and what my credit score needed to be.

WikiHow: Restart Your Life

August 6: COVID 19 Social Distancing

I took this picture at the Stony Island Arts Bank when I participated in Open House Chicago a couple years ago. I came across it recently and realized how much life has changed from a socialization perspective. Tour the city and visit several different architectural marvels while in close contact with strangers who you strike up meaningful conversations with; one of the best parts about Chicago. I love the feeling of uniting over shared interests, the beauty of design, and the excitement of arriving at each location not knowing quite what to expect.

As of right now Open House Chicago is still on for this October with in person and remote experiences. I still can’t help but think the feeling won’t be the same socially distant and behind a mask. While talking to one of my friends last week it hit me that a lot of what drove people to live in Chicago is gone now or very different. The events/festivals, the theatre district/live shows, and wonderful restaurants/bars have all been forever impacted by this.

So why stay? I’ll be here for as long as it makes sense to me. Being from Chicago makes it harder to think these attributes about the city are gone or changed for good. I also completely understand those who want to move away from a place that’s nothing like it use to be.

Open House Chicago

August 5: The Early Years

Pictured here is a young, very 90s Kensli. With the recent news of Chicago Public Schools doing a “learn at home” program in the fall, I’ve started to reflect on those early years in my life. My daughter is currently enrolled in Kindergarten but will it feel like Kindergarten if it’s not at school, interacting in person with other Kindergarteners? How will these early years shape the rest of her experiences moving forward?

I attended Kindergarten at a Catholic school on the south side of Chicago. I remember very little from that school year. Even though my daughter is so smart and so present I take comfort in knowing she’ll hopefully remember very little of this. I want the teachers and all of the students to be safe always. I’m wondering if remote only learning will become the “new normal”.

I know that the most important thing to do in this situation is shape my daughter’s expectations. “I’m very excited about you entering Kindergarten but maybe you won’t go to meet your new friends right away. You’ll probably spend some time learning on the laptop first, then you’ll get to meet with them and your new teacher.

Coronavirus Memories For Kids

August 4: Welcoming The New

I’m beyond excited for the opportunity to welcome this new adventure. Today was my first official day as Spa Manager at SpaDerma Lincoln Park! While I’ve never worked at a spa before, I think my diverse hospitality background is just right for this position. With this opportunity I can truly merge my love for beauty, wellness, and hospitality. I’m so happy and I think this role is the perfect fit for me.

So if your skin is in need of a transformation or you’re interested in any of the wonderful services we have to offer, feel free to reach out and I’ll get you booked! Treat yourself, like the team treated me to delicious first day Bundt cakes!

SpaDerma

August 3: Press Play

Over the weekend I took a pause from social media and media outlets (news). I also lived nearly 24 hours with my phone off. I’m going to be honest, keeping my phone off for that long caused me anxiety more than anything. I can’t say that I recommend it unless there’s something specific you’d like to accomplish in that time. I only received some sense of relaxation and clarity from my weekend long social media and news break.

Ignorance is bliss in this instance. When I didn’t have the worries of the world or any outside influences, I was able to enjoy a blissful weekend being as productive as I wanted to be. I focused on getting some work related things done and a couple things around the house. I also took the time to cook good food which might be the most important part of any pause.

Overall I don’t see myself turning off my phone again any time soon. I would definitely do a couple days with no media again though.

Quitting Social Media

August 2: Bad Days Are Okay

In contrast to celebrating ourselves and our accomplishments, we also have to be cognizant of our bad days. Everyone makes mistakes, it’s a part of growing and a part of life. We can’t let those choices and those bad days define what the rest of our life will look like.

In a time where many measure the worthiness of their lives in the accomplishments they’ve made; it can be really challenging when you underperform or make “bad” choices. I’ve had to restart my life and journey several times. I’ve taken a path that wasn’t right for me, then I’ve gone back and chosen that same path. It takes some of us, me, learning the hard lessons multiple times to fully realize what the correct choices for our lives should be.

We also can’t live with shame or regrets for choices made by the past versions of ourselves. With the knowledge, emotion, and understanding we had at the time. We made the decisions we thought were best. Maintaining this mentality keeps us from living a life of “what ifs”.

Bad Days are Okay

August 1: Celebrating Yourself

I recently received some unexpected and awesome news, more on that next week. In these COVID times It made me wonder how are we celebrating our good news and accomplishments. When we’d traditionally take a friend out for a celebratory drink or meal what can we do now to show them how awesome they are?

I’m not sure on this but in mulling it over I realized there’s no need to wait to be celebrated by others. I should focus on celebrating myself. For someone who works through life with a “checklist” of things I’d like to accomplish and conquer, the recognition and crossing something off the list feels good. Am I completing these line items for the sense of accomplishment or for the internal joy and pride?

When I received my awesome news I Instacart-ed myself some of my favorites, Prosecco and fresh seafood. I toasted myself on hard work paying off, had a drink, and immediately started thinking about how I could best immerse myself in the opportunity. Moving forward I’ll be working to choose fulfillment over achievement in hopes of finding true joy.

Fulfillment Over Achievement

July 31: Taking a Pause

There are many reasons you may want to take a pause to unplug and refresh. Taking a break to focus on your mental health and well-being can be a necessity. When you pause, you can restart with a positive mindset and a new focus on living in the moment. Cutting out the noise of bad news paired with many people’s highlight reel on social media, will allow you the opportunity, space, and time to refocus your energy on what’s most important to you.

Figuring out what’s for you and what direction you’d like to go in is imperative because it helps you to be your most productive self. If you release the things that aren’t serving you and aren’t beneficial you have the capacity to take on more of what’s meant for you.

TIDIR (Today I Did It Right) is taking a one week group pause for all of us who don’t want to go it alone. They have created journaling prompts that will help us focus on the right things during this break like living intentionally, building confidence, and finding clarity.

One of the co-creators Ariel Upton, has taken the lead on ensuring we all feel connected and motivated on this journey. While I won’t be pausing for the whole week I look forward to pausing for the next few days and encourage you all to join us! Don’t worry, I’ll still be blogging while I’m unplugged so when you’re ready to log back on there will be several new posts for you to check out.

TIDIR (Today I Did It Right)

July 30: Friendship

It seems like friendship would be a logical follow up to yesterday’s post on partnership. I’ve been reflecting on friendship a lot lately with the recent move of one of my best friends to Alaska (picture was taken on her flight).

Obviously close distance and proximity are not needed to maintain a friendship. Which begs the question what is needed? I think when you share a genuine and honest connection with someone it’s a friendship. It doesn’t matter if you’ve never met in person, if you go months without talking, or if you’ve just met.

For me the number one quality you can attribute to a friend is that they were/are there when you need them. If you counted on this person for emotional support or if they helped you with a problem you faced; you can consider them to be a friend. Once you reach this stage, it’s important to work at maintaining the friendship and showing up for them in return.

Maintaining Long Distance Friendships

July 29: Partnership

I am by no means an expert on partnerships, but I have come to know that there’s a need for some mutual understanding in order for the relationship to thrive. That could be a goal you’re working towards together or a lifestyle that you envision for yourselves as a couple. Lack of cohesion on some of these fundamentals will ultimately harm your relationship.

Some studies show that it’s a struggle for relationships where the partners marry across socioeconomic groups or education levels. Their reasoning behind this is that having different backgrounds and ways of thinking can be hard to adjust when you’re working to get on the same page as a partner. Views on things like work, family, and leisure are such vital topics that it can be difficult to find compromise or agreement on.

I’ll need more experiences before I can develop a true opinion on this but I think each partnership and each situation is unique.

Tensions Faced By Couples

July 28: Rainbow Baby

Yesterday on Instagram I posted this picture to my story to help bring awareness to miscarriages. The baby that a woman has after going through a miscarriage is commonly known as a Rainbow Baby. This was one of the reasons why I chose to have a rainbow themed Baby Sprinkle to celebrate my son’s upcoming arrival.

I do consider myself blessed in that I experienced a first trimester miscarriage and within a couple months I was able to get pregnant again and ultimately successfully bring a child to full term; he was born on his exact due date! Miscarriage should not be a taboo subject and women should not feel shame or embarrassment because they experience one.

With my first born, my daughter, I got pregnant quickly and unexpectedly. So when we tried to get pregnant again with the same ingredients of mom and dad used just 4 years earlier I was almost shocked at the miscarriage. Yes, I had my IUD removed so that I could get pregnant but the doctor said it wouldn’t affect my uterus and I should be fine to start trying right away.

My uterus was not stable for a fertilized egg to thrive. And that’s ok. And for some women their uterus may never be able to carry a child, that’s okay too. All moms, hopeful moms, and future moms should be supportive of each other because the journey we have to go through and the journey our bodies go through is different for everyone and different for each pregnancy.

More on Miscarriage

July 27: COVID 19 Travel Quarantine Order

There is so much to say about COVID 19 so I’m sure I’ll do another blog post about it in the coming weeks. For this post I want to highlight Chicago’s Travel Quarantine Order. As of last Friday there are 18 states that if visited, you are required to quarantine for a 14-day period.

I’m a certified contact tracer, I received the online certificate from Johns Hopkins. Because of this insider knowledge I think I have a clear understanding on the transmission of COVID-19. The reason the city requires these travelers to quarantine for 14 days is because at that time we can be confident that if they’ve contracted COVID-19 they are no longer able to spread it. Please understand that if you’re asymptomatic that means you have no symptoms. So you could be feeling completely fine, no fever or anything, and still spread COVID-19 to the people you come in contact with. Even if you were to get a test on your first day back, the period you’re waiting for the results you’re still infectious. The test is for an active virus in your body, there is always the chance you’ll get a false negative and will continue to spread COVID-19 should you come in contact with others.

We should follow the rules on this because while they’re inconvenient they really are meant to protect us.

Chicago Emergency Travel Order

July 26: Activism

Despite its perpetually bad reputation of being a dangerous place, I love Chicago. I’ve grown up here and moved back even after having lived out of state for several years. This city has so many resources, opportunities for activism, and people who care. True, the city is extremely segregated but that does not take away from the work of many change agents across all of the communities and neighborhoods.

With the recent outcries and response of the deaths of Ahmaud Arbery and George Floyd; My Block, My Hood, My City has centered itself as one organization in Chicago with a voice and a drive to help the people of our city. They have many opportunities to volunteer your time and funding. They’re even offering financial support to aid a group of activists who want to participate in the March on Washington in DC next month. I did apply and will keep you posted!

All this to say, the city needs help and the best way to do that is to contribute to the communities and neighborhoods that are most in need.

My Block, My Hood, My City

July 25: Enneagram

I have very recently been made aware of the enneagram of personality thanks to a new friend, Erika. I’ve taken lots of personality assessments and feel like I have a general understanding of myself and motivations. The enneagram is a symbol that has 9 distinct strategies for specific ways of thinking. I’m an enneagram type 7: the enthusiast!

While this may sound positive and fun once I completed a deep dive into all things type 7, I was able to uncover the dark side of this way of thinking. This fun-loving and versatile personality can become scattered and empty, to put it lightly. Type 7 becomes triggered when bored or in pain.

Moving forward, I plan to place a focus on self awareness when it comes to these things. I don’t want to find myself on the dark side. I’m feeling thankful to have this knowledge now, it’s already been very helpful. I challenge you to find your enneagram type and if you already know it, I challenge you to take another deep dive into what relates most to you.

Enneagram Test

July 24: Allyship

Scrolling on my LinkedIn this morning I came across the Time article announcing Michelle Obama’s new podcast. There were disgusting, hateful and racist comments that followed the post. Then I noticed the comment of Jeana Anderson Cohen, Founder of aSweatLife. She tagged Jeff Weiner- Executive Chairman at LinkedIn, and actively advocated the need to fix this harmful rhetoric that flooded the comment section.

This is what an ally does. When they see wrong, they call out those who can work to bring forth change. Their efforts may not always be seen but today they were. When I was reading people tear down Mrs. Obama, someone I have the utmost admiration for, it felt good to see a friend and ally step in and speak up.

What is an Ally?

July 23: They Grow Up So Fast

After exclusively breastfeeding for 4 months, yesterday my son had his first tasting of real food. The lucky puréed veggie that was chosen was carrots and I was quite impressed at how well he took a liking to them.

Reflections:

-When it comes to maternal mortality, Black women die 2.5x more often than white women

-We need to remove the pressures in the hospital that are placed on new moms, forcing them to breastfeed

-Feeling grateful I was able to spend this time with my son before heading back to work

Maternal Mortality Data

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