You made it through 2019 ( 🎊 congrats, you’re a survivalist 🎊 ) , 🎉🎉WELCOME 2020! 🎉🎉
… now what?
A whole new year is up for the taking and it is all up to you.
What did I learn from how I handled that last encounter?
What are your goals?
What does setting this goal do for me?
What was in my control?
What isn’t?? 🤔
What can I change as an improvement?
How can I make that change?
All questions that can be really overwhelming, but guess what?! You don’t have to answer them all at once. You have twelve whole months, and four whole weeks in every month to:
Come up with a plan, set your goals and execute. You’re going to be held accountable, so what’s your move?

First things first, Mel! Perspective, understanding different points of view and your role in every situation involving you.

Getting to the root of understanding takes a consistent and daily journey. It seems impossible in today’s society, but how are you going through it?

First, evaluation your position you played in the situation, what YOUR true position and how your actions effect you and the ones involved. Most importantly, does it have anything to do with you?
To even begin ponder on when, where or how you have to remove yourself emotionally from the situation and think logically where your point of view came from, was there an emotional investment and how would you truly respond the same if the same situation involved you if you were in the other person’s position.

-signed.melanin 📩