Occupational Balance as a Mother
Balancing motherhood, marriage, career, friendships, is a challenge faced by many mothers. About every 3-6 months, I feel a shift in my balancing act as a mother, as we enter a new season and new season of motherhood. Lately, I have been reviewing the concept of occupational balance professionally, but also as it applies to my motherhood journey. Occupational balance refers to the right amount of roles, responsibilities, and activities, and the right amount of variation between those. Knowing this and having awareness is crucial for mothers to maintain personal health and fulfillment.
Understanding Occupational Balance
Occupational balance involves juggling different roles and activities, ensuring that none are neglected or cause undue stress.
Often, the transition to motherhood can lead to a disruption of their occupational balance, with less participation in self care and rest, and more participation in productivity demands (caregiving and home management). Occupational balance for mothers, means finding harmony between parenting duties, professional responsibilities, and personal needs.
Achieving this balance can lead to improved mental health, reduced stress, and a greater sense of accomplishment.
Your occupational balance in motherhood more than likely will change from season to season of life. Try checking in with yourself every 2-3 months (or sooner if needed) to re assess YOURS and your families needs.
Strategies for Achieving Occupational Balance
1. Set Realistic Goals and Priorities
Identify what truly matters to you. Set achievable goals and prioritize tasks that align with your values and long-term objectives. Avoid overcommitting by learning to SAY NO to activities that don’t align with your priorities.
2. Create a Flexible Schedule
Flexibility is key in balancing work and motherhood. Create a schedule that accommodates the unpredictable nature of parenting. Consider flexible work arrangements, such as remote work or adjustable hours, to better manage your time.
3. Delegate and Share Responsibilities
Don’t hesitate to delegate tasks at home and work. Share responsibilities with your partner, family members, or colleagues. Consider hiring help for household chores or childcare can also ease the burden and free up time for other activities.
4. Embrace Self-Care
Prioritize self-care to maintain your physical and mental health. This can include exercise, hobbies, or simply taking time to relax. Reframing self care tasks can help initiate our participation. Regular self-care helps recharge your energy and improves your ability to handle multiple responsibilities.
5. Stay Organized
Use tools like planners, calendars, and apps to stay organized and keep track of your commitments. Break down larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
6. Seek Support Networks
Connect with other mothers who understand the challenges you face. Support groups, both online and offline, can provide valuable advice and encouragement. Don’t be afraid to ask for help from friends and family when needed.
7. Maintain Open Communication Keep open lines of communication with your employer, partner, and children. Discuss your needs and any challenges you face in balancing your roles.
Achieving occupational balance as a mother is a dynamic and ongoing process. Remember, finding balance is not about perfection but about making intentional choices that lead to a fulfilling life.