Relationships

The hardest thing for myself in relationships is trust. Life for me has been filled with let downs, one after another, lies and even failures. I suffer with Borderline Personality Disorder so I will analyze everything people say and do and I will form my own opinions about whether a person is good or bad. It also takes very little to flip the scale. I have been cheated on, lied to, gaslighted, blamed. I have learned though that just because relationship problems happen doesn’t mean people are good or bad just means they’re human. The key to not letting these problems destroy you is to let go or leave. You can stay that’s your choice but you have to want it and believe in it. This is incredibly hard for me because once you’re bad you’re bad everything you do is bad with bad intent. But even I have to accept that forgiveness real forgiveness is the only way to find peace. You will drive yourself crazy without letting go of how you were wronged or betrayed. Don’t give up on your relationships but don’t hold on to grudges either.