Welcome! Whether you are a mother, love one, or care for one, we’re grateful you’re here. We want to share with you how God has led us to develop this ministry and where He is taking us next.
We are Ben and Gab Hershman—husband and wife, parents, and fellow laborers in Christ’s kingdom. Sola Gratia Vita was born from a deep conviction to walk alongside women, couples, and families navigating perinatal, reproductive, and grief-related challenges. This ministry is an outpouring of the grace we’ve received, woven through the joys and sorrows of our own journey.
Gab’s path to soul care began in an unexpected way—moving from the beauty industry to women’s ministry, then into birthwork as a doula and childbirth educator. Each season prepared her heart to serve mothers and couples more deeply, from expectant joy to the heartbreak of loss. Over the past sixteen years, through motherhood’s refining firey moments, she has been equipped to offer comfort, encouragement, and the hope of Christ to those facing some of life’s most tender transitions.
As for Ben, God called him from the world of electrical work into teaching, worship ministry, and leading our family in faith. His steadfast presence in this work is a quiet but powerful reflection of Christ’s love—reminding us that ministry is not just about serving others but about how we walk together as husband and wife, as parents, and as co-laborers in the gospel. His role is not just as a support but as a shepherding presence for husbands who are seeking to love and lead well through the challenges of loss, uncertainty, and new life.
At Sola Gratia Vita, our prayer is that mothers and couples walking through these seasons, will feel truly known, loved, and equipped for their calling. That they would experience the presence of the Holy Spirit in sleepless nights, in moments of doubt, and in the quiet ache of grief. That they would know they are not alone.
Soul Care?
It’s where care and comfort meet help and hope.
Motherhood and marriage —like life itself—are full of contrasts:
Joy and sorrow.
DirecGrowth and loss.
Laughter and tears.
Hope and suffering.
But by grace alone, even in the depths of grief, God brings redemption. Through Christ, we have seen beauty rise from ashes. And in our deepest wounds, He has given us the privilege of extending His comfort to others.
Our Prayer for This Work?
That every mother and every couple we serve who are enduring these tender seasons, would see God’s glory revealed in ways beyond their imagining. That they would find rest—not in what they or even we can do, but in what He has already done. That even in suffering, they would taste and see that the Lord is good.
By His grace alone,
Ben & Gab Hershman
Directors of Sola Gratia Vita