Reflections and Lifestyle
Lessons from Life
A thought on stepping out
Do you struggle with the fear of stepping into the unknown? I do. Especially when it's traveling to a new place or starting a new job. The sad part is that fear is one of the main culprits that can steal our daily peace. Instead of ignoring the unknown peace studies embraces the essence of risk because risk can play a valuable role in reimagining the situation. Sometimes when we are so overwhelmed with fear we might overlook people who are in our corner. If you're afraid to take the next step in your journey then I encourage you to talk with someone you trust, visualize the event happening the way you want it to, and to pray about it! Psalms 55:22 says to "cast your cares onto the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." -NIV.
What is one step you took in the past that you're proud of?
Lessons from the seasons
At times it may feel exhausting to look around and see people in seasons that you wish you were in. Engagements, moving into a new home, beginning an amazing career, you name it!
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This reminds me of last year's season between late winter and early spring. When I lived in Indiana, I often saw my friends in California post pictures of flowers, the beach, and their cute spring outfits while I was still stuffing my feet into two pairs of wool socks.
I even remember the sinking feeling in my stomach when I learned a Midwest winter could linger into April!
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Springs in northern California come like a rush of warm wind. Plum trees can fully bloom in a few weeks' time, yet they sometimes last much shorter than spring flowers in the Midwest. In colder weather, spring comes as a sigh over the land. Daffodils may appear in small little clusters over snow covered hillsides. And sage green buds on the bare trees often blur into the gray of spring fog. The slow beauty of changing nature was breathtaking.
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If there's one thing I've learned from observing the coming of spring is that the same season can be beautiful and uniquely different. While you see people starting families, getting married, moving abroad, entering new relationships etc. I hope you remember that there is beauty in your season and in the pace it unfolds.
A note on fourishing
Flourishing: (of a person, animal, or other living organism) grow or develop in a healthy or vigorous way, especially as the result of a particularly favorable environment.
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In the fall of 2019, I attended a conference on Building Sustainable
Peace. I remember my excitement as I was surrouned by flurries of conversations ranging from strengthening international negotiations, new peacebuilding technologies, and decoloniality. Yet one panel in particular transformed how I understood peace. The presenter, Katherine Grein, discussed "The Many Faces of Resilient Mothers", and how mothers established ecosystems of resilience. This often included healthy connections and fostering physical environments that cultivated a sense of safety. Before her presentation, I believed resilience was internal - mental fortitude -having grit and pushing beyond one's boundaries. I believed I was resilient because I managed to accomplish quite a bit under deeply challenging circumstances throughout my life. However, I never intentionally took stock of how my physical environment, community, and even beliefs added to or chipped away at my resilience. That day showed me that success does not necessarily equate to flourishing. It is only one aspect to a much larger process.
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Today's reflection: What does healthy growth or flourishing looking like to you?
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Cultivating a restorative and reflective lifestyle
Home is not just a physical location, although it can be. Home is the community you build and the environments you cultivate. The Peacebuilder's Cottage is a space dedicated to facilitating reflection, restoration, and growth - an atmosphere of home in the heart! ♡ My mission with this blog is to foster a gentle atmosphere of peace and belonging to transform social media into a space of healing.
(Please note that what I share is grounded in how peacebuilding resonates in my own life. My reflections do not mean that I have a monopoly on the notion of peace. I am simply sharing my experiences and where I see connections from my experiences, faith, and education).
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~Psalms 27:13
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