Family constellations is a therapy that works within the energetic layers. It is quite apparent that it exists during the sessions. The energy is palpable and you can notice it shift or disípate as the order of love is re-established. As the saying goes “Love is in the air”.
This therapy identifies and releases repeating patterns and trapped experiences(traumas) within ourselves and our family lineage. We typically carry the issues of our parents, grandparents and further generations without any awareness which can be stifling our growth and happiness in life.
Can’t find the root of your pattern or unsupportive behavior ? Maybe it’s because it’s not yours. Maybe you are carrying it for your parents or grandparents.
Wether you are constellating or participating, the constellation will have effects on everyone present. There are direct effects to the person constellating and often to others in the circle that are simply present. The resonance of the experience effects all of us. You may experience a deep release and shift while watching somebody else’s constellation. After all, we’re not so different.
- An in person experience lasting 2-3 hours in groups of between 6-24 people.
- A powerful phenomena to expose and realign the energies affecting your family and your life.
- Learn why you subconsciously sabotage or repeat patterns such as choosing certain types of partners.
- A quote on what family constellation is….”Hellinger revolutionized the heart and soul of family therapy by illuminating the unconscious, and often destructive, loyalties within families. He observed that traumatic events, such as the premature death of a parent, sibling or child, an abandonment, crime or suicide, can exert a powerful force affecting later generations. Entangled with unhappiness from the past, family members often continue patterns of anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, fear, chronic illness, and unfulfilled relationships. Identifying what he termed “Orders of Love,” Hellinger observed that certain governing principles must be respected in order for the love in the family to flow in a healthy way. And that when these orders are disturbed, for example, when a child unknowingly carries the fate of a parent, suffering and unhappiness ensue. Hellinger found that each member in our family holds a special place and has an equal right to belong to the family system. This applies equally to stillborn and aborted babies, as well as to the failures and perpetrators in our family who may have been rejected for reasons of immorality, criminal misconduct or abuse. If any member of the family is disrespected, forgotten, excluded, or disregarded in some way, someone in a later generation may repeat his or her fate by sharing a similar misfortune. Only when we acknowledge and honor the difficult fates of those who’ve preceded us, can the “Orders of Love” be reestablished and the chain of tragic destinies be broken. Hellinger developed Family Constellation Work, an effective therapeutic process that helps to break destructive family patterns of unhappiness, illness, failure, and addiction. The results are often immediate and life-changing.”
- Mark Wolynn, director of the Family Constellation Institute in San Francisco.