Let’s Start our Journey and Get to Know each other
I’m excited you’re here and ready to start a journey to live a beautiful life, and mend from the inside out. That’s how every day becomes a good hair day. I am a survivor and I have an unwavering Belief that you can mend from your past traumas, Overcome, transform your life and Walk with Purpose to Collide with Destiny!
I’m Melanie, Fusilier and I am on a mission to help you believe you are The Most Beautiful Child of God that he created you to be! A woman no longer stuck, believing the toxic BS (belief systems) society has fed her or limited by the pain of her past.
I am also a daughter of the King, Wife, Mama to three Babes, transformational trauma Coach, John Maxwell Leadership Coach, Speaker & Trainer, child abuse prevention advocate and Consultant!
But let me share with you why I am
The right person to help you take courageous action and walk in true Freedom!
As far back as I can remember in my childhood I was sexually molested, and driven to meet the expectations of others in order to receive love. This started me on a path of toxic relationships, self bitterness, guilt and shame.
I didn’t know it but I became fearful of rejection and people’s intentions. That resulted in me self-sabotaging my relationships and pushing people away which left me feeling abandoned and that I didn’t belong..
In 2007 I lost all of my hair to alopecia. I was faced with the choice to no longer suffer in silence and I sought out the help I needed to mend from the pain of my trauma that I subconsciously buried so deep that I didn’t realize it was controlling the struggles I had in my life.
With zero confidence in myself and deep rooted limiting beliefs, I knew I had to make drastic changes in order to transform my life. I wanted to give my children the Freedom
and deliverance that I never had as a child and young adult.
Through the grace of God, my inner resilience and grit was unleashed!!
I had a fulfilling career as a Teen Leadership Teacher, and Adapted Special needs coach! Before kids I also coached volleyball & softball. In 2016 I took it upon myself to get personal development and I set out to 10x my life! I got certified with The John Maxwell Team as a Leadership Coach, Facilitator, Trainer and Speaker.
I have always stood firm on the belief that “All Things are possible through Christ” so I locked arms with him and shed the identity of broken and bitter. I embarked upon a journey to Passionately Pursue my Purpose and become a woman of unshakable Confidence! That confidence was in fact shaken in 2017.
Since my first child I had always had the desire to stay home with my kiddos and after I had my third child I was in a place to become a SAHM! This proved to be a difficult transition and I found myself stuck in regards to my confidence as a parent. I was falling back into a pattern of anger, guilt and shame. This told me that I still had some work to do.
So this was just the beginning. I realized that I needed to un-learn the B.S. (Belief Systems) that this toxic world has thrown at me.
I diligently have researched, and learned from mentors to understand the reasons why survivors of trauma, think and behave the way they do as a result of their pain.
I also realized that I was missing something by only having the role as a stay at home mom. One of my mentors said if you feel overwhelmed, then you are probably under purposed. So I set out to pursue a new purpose in my new role and started a Parents Pursuing Purpose Blog!
This pursuit became the catalyst for my personal mending and success and has equipped me to empower fellow survivors and parents to overcome and co create with God the life of their dreams!
I was super busy and was presented with an opportunity to join an anti aging Haircare company and start a business. I immediately said no because I was too busy juggling, three kids, a blog, and trying to get my coaching business off the ground.
But as I do with all big decisions I told my friend that I would pray about it. I heard an instant yes and I took a leap of faith, gave it to God and did it afraid!
Well, God knew what I didn’t know and it was the best decision I have made! God had the vision for me to mend my coaching, my personal experiences, my freedom Ministry training and now this shampoo Biz to impact the lives of others!!
Going through the action steps of this business, coupled with the phenomenal leadership, personal development and amazing products, I have been able to make a difference in the lives of so many people!
It was through this business that I was able to identify my CORE limiting BS and Believe in myself and know that I am worthy and I belong! I am committed to Loving others hard and helping them to revive their self worth and renew their minds to be Confident and BELIEVE in the abundant life that God wants them to have.
I have the unique super “natural”
Power to use the help of the Holy Spirit to identify and decode my client’s subconscious limiting beliefs, mindset blocks and blind spots to their negative coping mechanisms.
My relationship with God and personal experiences helps me have a strong foundation to elicit breakthrough and lasting transformation for professional entrepreneurs, Christian lady bosses and mamas around the globe!!
I have a desire to make disciples and advance the Kingdom through, social media, events, workshops, trainings and retreats. I am committed to live my life in such a way that shows others that no matter the struggle or experience, Victory is already won. I have a passion to influence Youth and anyone who influences Youth to Walk with Purpose and Collide with Destiny so they can leave a Legacy for the next generation!
My journey is proof that mending on Purpose is possible and that trauma doesn’t happen to us but for us!!
Today I’m living my best life in Flower mound Texas with my husband, two daughters and son. They are my biggest inspiration and motivation to do whatever it takes! I have mended my ministry, coaching and beauty business to help others live a beautiful life of purity, peace and purpose!
Now it’s Your turn...
If you want to learn the foundational formula for transformation, see breakthrough in your life and live your most beautiful, authentic, empowered life, then join my Mend on Purpose Tribe and let me provide you with a strategy essential for co-creating the life you desire!
Transformation Workshops, Products, Service’s & Retreats
Passionately Pursue your Purpose
One of my Passion is to help Parents, Professionals, and Next Generation Leaders grow in their Leadership and Influence and take their next step to walk with purpose and collide with destiny. It is my goal to make a difference with people who want to make a difference, and are willing to do something to make a difference in the lives of others! Let me help you go from Struggling to Significant!
Outward Transformation: Hair, Skin, Wellness
Our mission is to help people everywhere enjoy beautiful, healthy, fulfilling lives through our exceptional, naturally based products, a fun and rewarding business opportunity, and a culture of family, service, and gratitude.
Our vision is to be a global leader in naturally based, anti-aging innovation—with an unrivaled business model that enhances the self-confidence and financial well-being of one million families around the globe each year.
My Website: Inward Transformation (Coaching/Training, Workshops & Retreats
I offer a wide variety of services including but not limited to: Coaching, DISC Assessment, The Leadership Game, Workshops, Parent Coaching, Youth Leadership Skill Development, Masterminding, Personal Development, ect.
Dive Deeper into your Purposeful Parent Journey of Leaving a Legacy and visit my Christian Parenting Blog
Walk with Purpose Workshop
We believe that Family is Founded on Faith, Joined in Love and Kept by God. We also believe that when you "Walk with Purpose, you will collide with Destiny. ' This Workshop will provide a blend of instruction, fun, fellowship, and discovery time to help identify God’s purpose, value, and next steps for your family. Each family who invests the time it takes to attend the workshop will have taken a huge step toward equipping themselves with a new multi-generational road map – we call it your Family GPS (Generational Purpose Strategy)
This work shop is a mini workshop from The Purposeful Parent Program
Purposeful Parent Program
In this 15 week Program we will look at Proven Principals for you to grow in your Parenting and in your life. This Online Class is a virtual course with Certified Leadership Coach Melanie Fusilier who is the Founder of 3P Leads Consulting and founder of Parents Pursuing Purpose. She has mentored many parents, Professional educators, Community Leaders and Teens with Leadership, people development, Communication, Team building and self development. This online class is an immersive experience into the foundational principles that guide successful people. We will also develop a personal growth Plan, and A Family Culture Plan including a Family Vision and Mission Statemet.
Professional Transformation: The Leadership Game
The John Maxwell Team Leadership Game is a comprehensive game based on the teachings of John C. Maxwell. The game helps organizations improve their leadership intelligence and increase their effectiveness. Why? "Because everything rises and falls on Leadership." says Maxwell.
These leadership principles carry consequences with them. Apply the laws in your organization and increase your influence. Violate and ignore them, and your ability to lead others will suffer. But there's news: every one of the laws can be learned. How? Play the game with 6-12 of your most influential leaders and find out!
Get Ready to Raise your Organization's Leadership Lid!–
The Leadership Game is a fun, yet challenging experience designed to help you and your team bettr understand core leadership principles and values.
Through this game, you will be able to raise the leadership awareness of your team and introduce the timeless leadership principles that will bring about positive change through communication and connection!
Favorite Monat Wellness Recipes and Tips
All of our wellness mix best at room temperature and then mixed with either a milk frother or blender.
Why you’ll love it:
A unique all-in-one formula that helps support the body’s natural production
of collagen, adding strength and resilience to hair, skin, and nails
WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT
MONAT Energy is a delicious, all-natural drink mix that provides long-lasting
energy to help you power through the day.*
WHY YOU’LL LOVE IT
Total Greens is the ultimate daily superfood boost, offering a full spectrum of antioxidant-rich fruit and vegetable powders plus dietary fiber to support
energy, immune health, and glowing skin.*
Positive Prosperity Progression Course
Inside I will show you:
🌊 What a GIANT wealth transfer means and how to understand the current financial situation we are in as a country.
🌊 How to use a this transfer to build wealth and have solid financial security in unprecedented times.
🌊 Why some are going to sink and others are going to float (and the 3 steps you need to take in order to make sure you're hangin 10, baby!).
🌊 Why this is going to be the BEST time to become a millionaire and how to do it (it's easier than you think).
🌊 My secret strategy to building wealth while changing lives and making an impact. (🤫shh… it’s the Covenant code)