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Hi everyone,

I'm Mavie, also known as Mommy Mein in social media. I used to work as a marketing assistant, but I decided to resign due to my struggle with depression and anxiety disorder. It was a difficult time in my life, but I'm grateful for the support of my loved ones who helped me get through it.

Now, I'm married and a happy mom to my little son. Being a mother is one of the most challenging things I've ever done, but it's also the most rewarding. I'm learning every day how to be a good mom, and how to prioritize my own mental health. It's a continuous journey, and I'm grateful for every moment of it.

With my social media presence, I hope to connect with other moms, share my experiences, and learn from others. I also want to use my platform to raise awareness about mental health and to encourage others to seek help when they need it. Life can be tough, but with the right support, we can overcome anything.

Thank you for letting me share my story with you, and I can't wait to connect with all of you!

A Mom's Blog #1

Breaking the Stigma: The Truth About Stay-at-Home Moms and Mental Health

Being a stay-at-home mom is often seen as a “luxury” or a “cush” job. Many people believe that these women should have nothing to complain about, as they get to stay home and take care of their children all day. But the reality is that being a stay-at-home mom is not always easy. In fact, it can come with its own set of stressors and challenges that can have a serious impact on mental health.

One of the biggest challenges that stay-at-home moms face is isolation. When you’re at home all day with your children, it can be difficult to feel connected to anyone outside of your family. This isolation can lead to feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. It can also make it harder to get the support you need when you’re struggling.

Another challenge of being a stay-at-home mom is the lack of “me time”. When you’re responsible for your children’s care 24/7, it can be difficult to find time for self-care and to take care of your own mental health needs. You may feel guilty for taking time for yourself or feel like you don't have the time to do so at all. This lack of self-care can lead to burnout and a feeling of being overwhelmed.

Despite these challenges, many people continue to view being a stay-at-home mom as a “luxury” or a “cush” job. This stigma can make it harder for stay-at-home moms to reach out for help when they need it. It can also make it harder for them to feel validated in their struggles.

Breaking this stigma is important for the mental well-being of stay-at-home moms. One way to do this is by acknowledging the challenges that come with the job and listening to and supporting stay-at-home moms as they navigate those challenges. It's also important to allow stay-at-home moms time off for self-care and time to connect with others in their community.

Ultimately, being a stay-at-home mom can be rewarding and fulfilling, but it comes with its own set of challenges that can impact mental health. Breaking the stigma around this job is essential for acknowledging and supporting stay-at-home moms in their journey towards better mental well-being. By providing them with the appropriate resources and support, we can ensure that stay-at-home moms feel validated and empowered in their roles and are better equipped to handle the stressors that come with it.

—posted on May 09, 2023

A Mom's Blog #2

"Mama, I Need Patience: A Journey from Losing It to Becoming a Good Mom"

Being a mom is a challenging and rewarding experience simultaneously. But it is also normal to feel guilty about not being the perfect parent, particularly when it comes to our children's behavior and actions. We wonder if we could have done anything better when we shout at our kids out of frustration or lose patience with them and regret it immediately after.

Mothers go through this feeling of guilt, especially when it comes to their child's discipline and development. It is indeed a tough job trying to balance being a disciplinary parent and being empathetic and understanding to their child's behavior. Nonetheless, every good mom makes sure to give their best shot even when the situation calls for significant effort.

However, being a good mom is a never-ending process that comes with trial and error. We learn from our mistakes and try to do better in the future. We owe it to ourselves and our children to keep growing and evolving as conscientious parents. After all, our children are our reflection, and our dedication towards them will bear fruit in their personality and behavior.

As moms, it is crucial to remind ourselves that we will not get everything right, and that's okay. We need to forgive ourselves for our shortcomings and work towards improving ourselves. A positive attitude and the determination to improve is all it takes to be a good mom.

So to all the mums out there who have felt guilty for losing their patience with their children, don't worry. You are one of the many great moms who tries to be the best. Recognize your efforts and don't give up on your personal growth. You will make mistakes, but it's how you handle them that makes the difference. Lastly, don't forget to celebrate your victories, even the small ones, because you deserve it. Remember, being a mom is not an easy feat, but a work in progress that requires continuous practice and improvement.

—posted on May 10, 2023

A Mom's Blog #3

"Overcoming the Unexpected: My Journey Through an Emergency Cesarean Birth During the Pandemic (And Losing a Loved One)"

Giving birth is one of the most intense, challenging, and emotional experiences that a woman can go through. And for someone like me who was a first-time mom, the experience was even more overwhelming. As if giving birth during a pandemic wasn't stressful enough, I had to deal with complications that left me feeling disconnected from my new baby.

It all started at 4am in the morning when I felt the first contraction. As a first-time mom, I was anxious and didn't know what to expect. I was unsure whether it was labor or something else entirely. Living in a pandemic made everything even more challenging because I had an idea what the protocols were, and I knew that the chances of being infected was high as well.

When I arrived at the hospital, I was informed that I needed an emergency cesarean. This news was daunting, and I was scared. To make things worse, my husband and his family members had all tested positive for COVID-19, whereas I had tested negative. With nobody to be there for me or my baby after the operation, we had to contact my mom to help.

The cesarean went smoothly, and at 11:35 am on May 16, 2021, my baby was born. Unfortunately, I didn't get to hold him or feed him my breastmilk right after birth, and part of me felt disconnected from him. I only heard his faint cry, and all I had were photos that my mom sent me to help me bond with my son.

Complications after the operation meant that I had to stay in the hospital for six more days and be completely alone without my family. During those six days, I felt completely and utterly isolated from the world. I felt like I was going crazy, and I couldn't wait to go home.

When I finally went home, I thought things would start getting easier, but then, three days after my release, my mother-in-law passed away due to COVID. I felt helpless and heartbroken for my husband, who had just welcomed a new life and lost someone so close to the same time. I couldn't stand up to support him and be there for him because of my stitches.

But even through all of this, we made it through with the immense support of our family. It was a difficult and complicated journey, but my baby and I made it. Looking back, I realize that it was the love and support of my family that helped me to make it through those tough times. Though it was a difficult journey, the love that surrounded us made it all worth it.

—posted on May 10, 2023

A Mom's Blog #4

Our Wishes to Our Little Man on His Second Birthday

Today is a very special day for our family- it's our son's 2nd birthday! Time really does fly by so fast and it feels like just yesterday we were holding him for the first time. As parents, our greatest wish for our son is to grow up to be a God-fearing, happy, compassionate, and loving person.

We know that life can be challenging at times but we are committed to doing everything in our power to give him a happy and fulfilling life. We may not have everything for him but we always try to do the best we can. We may have our own shortcomings as parents but we assure him that we will fulfill those little by little.

From the moment we had him, we knew that he was going to be the most precious thing in our lives. We will always cherish him and we hope that he feels that love every day. We want him to know that he is well-cherished by everyone in our family so that he will grow as a loving and kind kid.

As we celebrate his 2nd birthday today, we want him to know that love is kind. When you love someone, you are kind enough to do good things for them. We want him to always remember that and to spread love and kindness wherever he goes.

To our little boy, we love you more than anything in this world. We thank God every day for the wonderful blessing that you are to us. As we continue to watch you grow and learn, we will always be here for you- loving you, guiding you, and supporting you every step of the way. Happy 2nd birthday, our babylove!

–posted on May 16, 2023