Love your partner, but not in the mood for lovin’ your partner?

It’s tough to feel frisky when “hot and wet” most often refers to your kid’s diapers, and the only thing you want touching you at the end of the day is the cold side of your pillow.

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The good news is...

You don’t have to navigate this alone. Although talking about sex can feel taboo and make resources hard to come by, I have curated powerful content and can customize the approach to provide the exact support you need to spice up your life again.

Now for the bad news…

I can’t do the work for you...and it will take work. To see an improvement in your relationship, you need to commit to putting in the effort and trusting the process.

Your life has changed, your body has changed, and now your relationship needs to change with it.

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Are you ready for a Relationship Reset?

Before you crawl under the covers with your partner, we will uncover the benefits of sexual wellness. Forget the outdated idea of a sex drive. It’s all about incentives. Either you have positive incentives to have sex, or you don’t and thus struggle with low desire.

Here’s the thing...the incentives go beyond just having an orgasm or making your husband happy. What happens in the bedroom has a way of affecting what happens in the rest of your home (and beyond). A healthy sex life can have real, positive impacts on how you show up as a parent, friend, employee, and of course, partner.

So join us as we go deep and retrain your brain so when it comes to sex you too think “score” instead of “chore”. It will take time—8 weeks to be exact—but the investment will pay off.

During the 8 week Relationship Reset, you and your partner will focus on 10 key areas:

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This program is for you if you want to …

Now maybe you’re thinking this sounds great, BUT…

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Can my partner join?

Absolutely! This program is intended to be a partner program so that you can get the maximum benefits. There is a great deal of independent work as well as partner work throughout the program, so don’t worry, you will be able to focus on both. Additionally, you will have access to privately ask questions and get feedback, in case you have hesitation saying certain things in front of your partner.

Does my partner need to join?

While it is highly beneficial for both partners to participate together, it is absolutely possible to gain great benefits from the program if done independently. Additionally, you will have ongoing access if you want to go through with your partner at a later point in time.

Are there any areas you cannot help with?

I am not a clinician, so I cannot provide medical advice for physical or mental health. I can provide support for you in taking the steps to seek this assistance if appropriate.

So, are you ready to reset your relationship?

Let’s do this!


Your oversharing big sister providing more details than some may be comfortable with about her sex life.

Everyone needs a friend and confidante they can talk about sex with (women and men)…I’m here to be that person for you!

I’m helping to normalize discussing the real struggles we are ALL experiencing in the bedroom. My experiences may be slightly different than yours, but my goal is to start an important discussion and make it a bit easier to chat about a taboo subject…and hopefully get a few laughs along the way.

Our sex lives should bring us confidence, power, playfulness, and happiness and they should help us feel connected, supported, appreciated, and in sync with our spouses. Unfortunately…many of us are struggling to achieve this for SOOO many reasons. I focus on sharing my journey - the ups/downs and the lessons learned that have helped me turn things around in my marriage time and time again.

I recognized I wasn’t alone in what I was experiencing - struggling to navigate my sex life with my husband at varying stages - marriage, pregnancy, motherhood, etc.

I knew I wanted to do something to help others so that they didn’t struggle to figure out things on their own like I did. And that is how Nishy came to be!

For those wondering what Nishy means or where it came from…it was the name for my private parts as a kid 🤷‍♀️.

I look forward to getting to connect with each of you and hopefully helping you on your journey to improving your sex life and overall sexual wellness. Please reach out and connect!

💕 Tara

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What is this project?

The Nishy Project is about helping women embrace sex as the key to their wellness, confidence, and power.

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When things are going well in your sex life

It’s fun to share your sexcapades! It’s hot to write, read and relive experiences, and it feels exhilarating to get a sneak peak into the real experiences of others.

When things are NOT going well in your sex life

It’s helpful to vent your frustrations. It can feel cathartic to write down your feelings of disappointment, guilt, shame, embarrassment, or any other emotion. In these moments, reading what others experiencing similar challenges have to say can be beneficial, too. Seeing that you aren’t alone, and learning from each other so we aren’t all left figuring things out ourselves.

A Safe Community for Women

Whether you're coming to The Nishy Project to read or write, for support or stimulation…know that all are welcomed, encouraged, and appreciated.

This is a place to witness the REAL experiences women have with sex - the good, the bad and everything in between. Through these stories, we will begin to see the impacts that sex has on ALL areas of our lives and acknowledge the essential role it plays in our overall wellness, confidence, and power.

Essentially, knowledge is power, and with sex being a taboo topic, we unfortunately know too little. What we do know has been heavily skewed by society, religion, media, and more.

Throughout history, storytelling has proven to be one of the most valuable mechanisms to teach, learn, inspire, motivate, excite, and empower. Storytelling brings value both for the reader and the writer. Journaling, a written form of storytelling, brings immense benefits, especially as it pertains to achieving goals and instilling habitual change.

So, we thought about the best way to support individuals, empower a community, and assist in creating and maintaining healthy habits…and it resulted in The Nishy Project.

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Our Core Values

In order to build a safe community, we have outlined these core values to explain the way we expect you to interact with this project.


The focus of The Nishy Project is support, inclusion, acceptance, and education. We believe that these objectives are not just achievable with anonymity, but furthered by it.

While we are all about the “kiss and tell” mentality amongst friends, we want users to be able to share openly and honestly and we feel that leveraging anonymity supports this.

Social media has created such a culture of comparison and that couldn’t be further from what we are aiming for here - hence the anonymity. There is FULL anonymity. We do not collect your email. You choose your user name and should use anonymity.

Please keep names out of all stories. We expect that our users can respect this code of conduct. You can create fake names for storytelling but please no last names, even made up.


You can read and consume without setting up an account - take things at your own comfort level. Even if you hope to just read, you can create an anonymous account that will give you capabilities to like stories which will help contribute.


Any and all of your stories are welcome. The Nishy Project is designed to act as your sex diary, allowing you to look back over time and revisit experiences.

Use this platform as desired, but we recommend documenting your sexual encounters on an ongoing basis, leveraging this as a journal or tracker to support good habits associated with sexual wellness.

Additionally, enjoy playing catch up and populating historical stories as you get to relive the experiences in all their glory.

Keep it real

We trust our community to provide real sexual encounters. While this can’t be regulated, our purpose with this project is to demonstrate more of what REAL sex looks like for women. Including fictional experiences will detract from the learning. Additionally, we hope this is motivation to make your fiction reality!

Tell all

Go on…please don’t leave anything out...we want to hear all the intimate details. You can use dirty words and whatever language you are most comfortable with.

Please don’t stress about your writing skills or what other readers will prefer. This experience is all about you and what you’ll enjoy rereading it in the future. So, do what feels natural and stimulating for you, and remember to be yourself (both in the bedroom and when you write about it).

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